Dear Abby: Confidential worries across the years
Abigail Van Buren dispenses practical replies to readers facing a range of social woes. In this column, she advises a wife to urge her unfaithful colleague to stop using others as a patsy, suggests handling a nosy elderly visitor by setting boundaries, and counsels a mother to clearly tell her daughter-in-law to acknowledge wedding gifts with timely thank-you notes. A reader also learns that twins from two separate conceptions with different fathers is possible and receives guidance on pursuing a personal reply.
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Oakwood PTA elects officers. Ernie Green speaker on parenting
Oakwood Parent-Teacher Association elected officers at a Tuesday meeting led by president Charles Fair. Speaker Ernie Green, ex Browns halfback and former Lorain County Juvenile probation officer, urged active parenting and supervision, stressing the outside environment's impact on children.
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Oakwood Oakwood Parent-Teacher Association
Charles Fair
Charles Kramar
Thomas McClements
Joseph Wisneski
Ralph Moyer
Comucnl
Roger Roseborough
Paul McDavid
Ernie Green
Cleveland Browns
Lorain County
Mr. Green
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Linda Walter and Donald Bliss Jr Wedding Report
The nuptial Mass for Linda Jean Walter and Donald Dean Bliss Jr took place at St Mary Church on April 1. Guests included family members and friends. the couple will reside at 780 Oberlin Rd Apt 18. The bride, a 1966 Midview High School graduate, works for Muller Packaging in Oberlin. the groom is employed at American Standard Air Conditioning. They will start married life in Oberlin.
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Linda Jean Walter
Donald Dean Bliss, Jr
Joseph J. Lang
St. Mary Church
Midview High School
Muller Packaging Company
Oberlin
American Standard Air Conditioning
April 28 reception for Mr and Mrs Roger Gerwig
An Open Church reception will be held April 28 from 7 to 9 p.m. at the Church of Christ in Greenwich C for Mr. and Mrs. Roger Gerwig married in Florence S C March 30. The bride Edith Jayne Enderby is daughter of Wayne Enderby of Shiloh D and former Elyria Grafton resident. She graduated Mapleton High School 1966 and works at A and W in Ashland. The groom attended Ashland High School and ran Atlantic Service Station on Claremont Ave in Ashland and is a Korea War veteran.
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Council
Edwin Hodgson
Parent Education
Gerald Larson
Princeton Ave
Church of Christ In
Greenwich
Roger Gerwig
Florence
S. C
Edith Jayne Enderby
Wayne Enderby
Shiloh, D
Ashland High School
Claremont Ave
Ashland
Korea
Plavan Gildenmeister Tie The Knot In Avon Church Ceremony
Mr and Mrs Andrew R Plavan reside at 14219 Triskett Rd Cleveland after marrying in a 1 pm April 1 ceremony at St Mary Church Avon Rev James ODonnell officiated The bride Sharon Gildenmeister daughter of Mrs Leonard Simon Avon and Gerald Gildenmeister Cleveland St The groom son of Mr and Mrs Fred Plavan West 139th St Cleveland Maid of honor Mary Ann Bruder bridesmaids Carole Gadke Janet Gildenmeister Best man Chuck Smolko Ushers Jan Gadke and Richard Przbyst Reception for 200 at UAW Hall Guests heard from graduates of Avon High and John Marshall High The bride worked at West End Dry Cleaning and the groom at Barth Corp Both reside in Cleveland.
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Andrew R. Plavan
Triskett Rd
Cleveland
Sharon Gildenmeister
Leonard Simon
Moore Rd
Avon
Gerald Gildenmeister
Cleveland St
Plavan
Fred Plavan
West 139Th St
Mary Ann Bruder
Carole Gadke
Janet Gildenmeister
Calendar of events at local clubs and halls
Event calendar lists gatherings at Holly Hall for Cosmopolitan Club at 1 p.m and El-Y-Annes at 8 p.m in the Holly Hall lounge Does of the Elks meet at Elks Lodge also at 8 p.m. Three TOPS meets at Columbia Gas Co auditorium at 7 p.m. St Paul Circle 5 hosts Mrs Ella Vogley at 8 p.m.
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Holly Hall
El-Y-Annes
Does of the Elks
Elks Lodge
Columbia Gas Co
St. Paul Circle
Ella Vogley
Plastic skirt guards silver cleaning chores
A practical plastic skirt slips on to prevent tarnish when cleaning silver. The skirt protects clothing during messy tasks. soil cleans with a damp sudsy cloth. It can be immersed in soap or detergent, rinsed, then hung to drip dry.
Measles menace to children in Lorain County
Measles affect more children in the United States than any other disease. John Kelly of the Public Health Service told Lorain County nurses at Elyria Memorial Hospital that measles is highly contagious and can cause brain damage or death. Since 1963 a vaccine has been available. Plans for mass immunization on Measles Sunday May 21 were reviewed, with nurses urged to volunteer at five clinics. The next nurses meeting is May 8 at Tom's Country Place.
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United States
John Kelly
U.S. Public Health Service
Lorain County
Ohio State Nurses Association
Elyria Memorial Hospital
Kelly
Gladys Davidson
Tom’s Country Place
Katherine Rabbitts Weds Joseph F Bacik Jr in Cleveland
Katherine M. Rabbitts married Joseph F. Bacik Jr on April 1 at Our Lady of Good Counsel Church Cleveland in a 10 am Mass. The bride wore white lace with sequins. Eveen Pauley was maid of honor. bridesmaids wore pink. best man was Brian Mayled. ushers included Kenneth Babik Robert Bacik and John Ramster. The couple planned a reception at Sunny Brook gardens after a wedding trip to California and will reside at 1300 Christline Ave Cleveland.
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Katherine M. Rabbitts
Joseph F. Bacik, Jr
Clement Alt
Our Lady of Good Counsel
Cleveland
Rochelle
Eveen Pauley
Mary Ellen Joyce
Barb Ortoski
Lois Bacik
Jenny Miller
Mario Androlie
Brian Mayled
Kenneth Babik
Robert Bacik
John Ramster
California
Baciks
Christline Ave
Joyce Carol Axx Weds Larry Smith in Nuptial Mass
Joyce Carol Axx and Larry Dean Smith wed in a nuptial Mass at St. Jude Church celebrated by Rev. Jerome Lajack. The groom is a USAF personnel specialist, and the couple plan to live in Germany where he will be stationed.
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Larry Dean Smith
Joyce Carol Axx
Svat Studio
Larry Smith
Jerome Lajack
St. Jude Church
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