Dear Abby Answers Two Readers on Jealousy and Etiquette
In a letter about a wife who is a former Playboy bunny the husband wonders how to handle her social invitations without appearing jealous. Abby suggests setting clear boundaries and addressing past behavior while prioritizing commitment and respect in marriage. A Philadelphia Bulletin reader asks about a doctor insulting a colleague at a clinic. Abby says the physician’s conduct was unprofessional and recommends handling it by addressing the issue with clinic leadership or seeking a different provider.
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Abby
Wong
Dear Abby wedding gift etiquette questioned by reader
A reader asks if giving money at weddings is the new norm and shares gifting regrets from an elderly, homebound sender who previously gave a costly wrapped pillowcase. The columnist responds that cash is still viewed as crass by some but common at many celebrations.
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Abby
N.Y
Cash
Bride and groom wed in La Purisima Church ceremony
Miss Renee Helen Libonao, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Roman Libonao, married Brooks Robert Steinke son of Mr. and Mrs. James Steinke in a 11 a.m. double ring ceremony at La Purisima Catholic Church. The couple, both Lompoc High School students, plan to live with the bride’s parents after a Morro Bay honeymoon.
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Renee’ Helen Libonao
Brooks Robert Steinke
la Purisima Catholic
Andrew McGrath
Roman R. Libonao
North Third St
James W. Steinke
North St
Ivy J. Steinke
Juliet Paguirigan
Lynda Rivaldi
Cindy Townes
Terri Boufford
Bruce J. Steinke
Roman Libonno, Jr
Brad J. Steinke
Billy Carter
Scooter Henderson
Larry Howell
Sammy Belevedere
Marilee
Lorie Garife
Dante D. Fonseca
Veterans Memorial Hall
Florentino N. Ignalan
Clemente Egmalin
Solvang
Robert Steinke
Cesar A. Paguirigan
Santa Ynez
Ignalan
Egmalin
Morro Bay
Lompoc
Soul Food dinners teach wide taste cultures at Lompoc High
Black Studies students at Lompoc High hosted two Soul Foods International dinners supervised by Lillie Carter. The menu included dishes from Blacks, Whites, Mexican Americans, Dutch, Cherokee, Portuguese, and Filipinos, prepared by seven cultural groups.
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Lompoc High School
Lillie
Soul Foods International
Nelson) Carter
Methodist Women to Become New United Methodist Women
The Women's Society of Christian Service will change its name to New United Methodist Women this week. Susanna Wesley Circle hosts a celebration Thursday at 9 30 a.m. in the Fireside Room of First United Methodist Church with a pledge service and nursery provided for attendees.
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Women's Society of Christian Service
United Methodist Women
First United Methodist Church
Susanna Wesley Circle
Miguelito Chapter OES observes Brothers Night
Miguelito Chapter 176 of the Order of the Eastern Star held Brothers Night at the Masonic Temple with Iva Mae Cox and Bob Cox presiding. Edna Maye Bishop spoke of a California instruction school, and guests from Montana and Lompoc were welcomed. A rummage sale is planned for March 3, and the next Miguelito Chapter meeting is February 5 with Rainbow Girls honors slated for January 23.
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Masonic Temple
Miguelito Chapter 176
Order of the Eastern Star
Iva Mae Cox
Bob Cox
Edna Maye Bishop
Buena Park
OES
Marty Jennings
International Order of Rainbow
Lompoc Assembly
Bernice Lunden
Miguelito Circle
Alice
J. R.) Jauncey
Lunden
Circle
Cox
Miguelito
Rainbow Girls
Judy Gilliam
Knitting Demonstration Marks January Meeting of FCI Auxiliary
The Federal Correctional Institution Ladies Auxiliary hosts a knitting demonstration as part of the January meeting. Plans include a progressive dinner on Saturday Feb 10 with chicken meal at $1.50 per person. Reservations are with Betty Carroll or Dot Raub.
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Federal Correctional Institution Ladies Auxiliary
Betty Carroll
Dot Raub
Tom Keohane
Frank Kenton
FCI
Ann
Marty) Vogler
Nicki
Bill) Halacka
Ruth
Don
Retired Persons plan installation Thursday
The American Association of Retired Persons will install officers for 1973 this Thursday at 1 30 PM in the Veterans Memorial Building. Officers taking office are Dart C Hooker president Fred Bremmerman vice president Billie Hall second vice president Eleanor Howell corresponding secretary Olive King recording secretary Pearl Sill treasurer. A brief business session and refreshments follow. The Lompoc Chapter invites inquiries to Civics Project Chairman Howard Simmons at 417 South F Street or phone 6 5954.
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American Association of Retired Persons
Winfred Gordon
Central California
Veterans Memorial Building
Dart C. Hooker
Fred Bremmerman
Billie Hall
Eleanor Howell
Olive King
Pearl Sill
AARP
Lompoc
Howard Simmons
South F St
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Philadelphia Bulletin Reader
Mrs
Brooks Steinke
Bruce Fall
Dear Abby
Renee’ Libonao
Brooks R. Steinke
Lawrence Rivaldi
Carter
Ignacio Luna
Bonnie Shields
Debbie Day
Shelly Preece
Stephanie Kern
Linda Taylor
Kathy Mann
Kay Wilson
Jennifer Hart
Wendell
Ray Turner
Lee Tolstad
Los Angeles
Ernie Barnes
Watts Towers
Lompog
Valley Life
Methodist Women Plan