Dear Abby letter on family finances and etiquette
A reader asks how to persuade a miserly husband to support elderly parents. Abby rebukes the husband’s behavior, noting the parents’ poverty and the burden of carrying groceries home, then shares a dated anecdote about manners and appearances from a reader’s letter describing “Old-Fashioned Papa.”
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Abby
Poughkeepsie
Connie Ruchotzke Becomes Bride at Stanwood
In a 2 o'clock Friday ceremony at St Pauls church, Connie Lynn Ruchotzke wed with Barry Spear as best man Kirk Ruchotzke and Jerry Ruchotzke among ushers. The bride, daughter of Leroy and Mechantesyilie Ruchotzke, wore a brocade gown with elbow sleeves and a yellow rose cascade bouquet. The couple will reside in Marion with groom employed by Sedrss Hoobuck Co. A reception followed in church social rooms. The event included attendants Karen Donohoe and Miss Donohoe as maid of honor. The Darrows were honored at a surprise picnic on Riverside Park for their 42nd anniversary.
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Stanwood
St. Paul's
Autheran Church
Barry Spear
Kirk Ruchotzke
Tiage
Connie Lynn
Jerry Ruchotzke
Dennis Floyd
Hasenbank
Spear
Cecil
Brian Bauer
Barbara Spear
Ruchotzke
Reginald
Mohl
Stewart Gehils
Craig
Leroy Ruchotzkes
Ce . Mechantesyilie
Marion
Sedrss Hoobuck Co. Stigulders
Jerry Darrow
Deborah
Karen Donohoe
Yellow Empire
Riverside Park
Niversary
Clark Johnson
Darrow
Idpistes
Johnson
Study Finds High Hidden Rate of Child Abuse Reports
A Wisconsin study of 2,700 parents shows about 10 percent know of abuse cases but only half report them. The rest avoid involvement due to parental apathy or reluctance to get involved.
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Wisconsin
Talwin and Darvon flagged for possible addiction risk
The BNDD and FDA report doctors have documented physiological and psychological dependence on Talwin and Darvon. The agencies say the two analgesics may be addictive and are reviewing their status.
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U.S
Talwin
Darvon
Bureau of Narcotics and Dangerous Drugs
The
Food and Drug Administration
BNDD
Sirhan Bishara Sirhan Visited by Mother at San Quentin
Mary Sirhan spent about 45 minutes with Sirhan Bishara Sirhan at San Quentin prison as the mother of the Kennedy assassin. She secured permission to visit again and discussed legal appeals from his death sentence. Guards cited prison rules restricting gifts from visitors. The facility has tightened security after recent inmate clashes between white and Black prisoners.
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San Quentin
Calif
Sirhan Bishara
Sirhan
Robert F. Kennedy
Mary Sirhan
Los Angeles County
Newark
Munir
Judith Tschopp Weds Mr Wiley For Better Health
Dr. S L Anderton discusses dysmenorrhea and menstrual health, urging understanding husbands, medical evaluation for hormonal or pelvic issues, heat therapy for pain, rest, proper exercise, and seeking specialists if needed. Readers with questions directed to Dr Andelman in care of The Cedar Rapids Gazette.
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Judith Tschopp
Mr. Wiley
Andelman
The
Cedar Rapids
Miss Shirley Ritze Honored at Center Point Shower
A miscellaneous bridal shower Saturday honored Miss Shirley Ritze daughter of the Ritzes in Center Point. The event at 1049 Twelfth Street NE was hosted by Mrs. Kenneth Pratt. Ritze is the June 22 bride-elect of Galen Mollenhauer son of Mrs and Mrs Roy Mollenhauer of Center Point.
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Shirley Ritze
Charles, Ritzes
Center Point
Kenneth Pratt
Twelfth
English nurse freed by Biafran government
Sally Goatcher, 28, an English nurse with Save the Children in federal Nigeria, has been freed by the Biafran government after being captured two weeks ago. Ellanor Campbell Hayes Lawrence, 83, wife of David Lawrence, editor of U.S. News & World Report and syndicated columnist, died here Friday.
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London
UPI
Sally Goatcher
Biafra
Miss Goatcher
Save the Children’’ Organization
Nigeria
Washington
Ellanor Campbell Hayes Lawrence
David Lawrence
News & World Report
Apricot Frosting Adds Flavor to Confectioners Sugar Icing
Cooked mashed dried apricots are stirred into confectioners sugar frosting to create a fruity topping. The blend enhances sweetness with apricot flavor and a smooth texture suitable for cakes and pastries.
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