Ann Landers Advice on Insecurity and Sexual Confusion
A reader asks if a timid office suitor is trying too hard to please. Landers differentiates between kindness and obsequiousness, calling him insecure and approval-driven. Another letter from a 17 year old asks if she is homosexual. Landers says this doubt can arise but does not confirm identity and suggests psychiatric consultation and parental disclosure of seeking information rather than therapy.