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Dear Eric column on an aging marriage and mixed burdens
A 74 year old woman seeks help as she endures decades of emotional and physical strain from a disabled husband amid sleep deprivation and abuse. The adviser urges boundaries, planning, and external support including legal aid, elder care resources, and domestic violence hotlines. A second letter follows about boundary issues with a cousin, advising to respect no and move on.
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Eric
Wiser
Legal Aid Bureau of Buffalo
Thehotline.org
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Alzheimer’s Association
Alt. Org
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Center For Elder Law