ASK AMY COLUMN: JOKES THAT HURT IN LONGTERM RELATIONSHIP
A reader asks if a partner’s cruel jokes are acceptable after 16 years together. A comedy writer argues humor often targets others’ pain. The advice notes sensitivity varies and suggests addressing hurt directly before vacation continues.
Ask Amy: readers advised to support pet rescues in grief
In a letter from a grieving reader, she suggests donations to local pet rescues in memory of a lost greyhound rather than flowers. Amy Dickinson affirms the idea and notes it could inspire broader animal charity support among readers.
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Dear Abby Marriage Strain After Husband Retires Early
A reader asks how to handle jealousy, depression like exhaustion and loss of energy after her husband retires and relies on Social Security while she works. Advice includes counseling, possible medication, and encouraging him to engage in volunteering and activities to spark conversation.
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