Life Advice From Dear Abby But Not Abby Here
A reader asks about an elderly mother living with a man his age and the gossip it causes. Ann Landers suggests not judging, advises the daughter to let the mother handle explanations, and notes moral ambiguity but social risk in the living arrangement. A second letter asks how to handle a wife warned to diet and quit smoking. Landers responds that continued self-harm signals indifference to life and shifts to how to motivate living, while a third hostile note derides caretaking and belittles the reader.
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Ann Landers
Florida
Pattern pattern 4903 women dress description and order details
By Ibane H Maeloms a step in dress with one side buttoning and scooped neckline offered in multiple sizes 34 through 48. Pattern 4903 requires 344 yards of 39 inch fabric for size 36. Cost fifty cents per pattern plus fifteen cents for first class mailing and handling. Mail to Anne Adams The Ottawa Herald Pattern Dept 243 West 17th St New York NY 10011. Include name address zone size and style number.
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Anne Adams
Ottawa Herald
West 17Th St
New York
N. Y
Bride-Elect Jean Reichard Hosts Aqua Pink Shower
Jean Reichard, bride-elect to Doug Higbie, was honored at a Tuesday evening shower in Fellowship Hall Williamsburg. Hostesses included Mrs. Vernon Bethell Mrs. Elston Decker and Mrs. Orlin Milliken. Forty guests attended. The couple will wed August 28 at the Williamsburg Methodist Church.
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Jean Reichard
Fellowship Hall
Williamsburg
Vernon Bethell
Elston Decker
Orlin Milliken
Doyle Reichard
Karyl Higbie
Wayne Reichard
Edwin Higbie
Karyl
Wellsville
Ida Reichard
David Anderson
Kevin
Ottawa
Jean
Doug Higbie
Methodist Church
Rudisell Gathering Highlights Family Reunion
The Rudisell family reunion with a basket dinner was held at North Garnett Lake on Sunday. Attendees included numerous Collin s, Burton, Zentner, Walters, Smith, Swisher, and other families from Garnett, Kearney, Garden City, Wichita, Overland Park, Sioux City, Ottawa, and Richmond. George Zentner was elected president and Mrs. George Zentner secretary treasurer.
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Rudisell
North Garnett Lake
Charles Collins
Edgerton
Ronald Burton
Kearney
Goldie Burton
Terry Brown
Garden City
Michael Kirk
Fredonia
Earl Rudisell
Wichita
Kenneth Rudisell
Overland Park
Danni
Penni Milroy
Sioux City
Iowa
Harold Cherry
Waverly
Larry Walters
Bowman Collins
Colony
Marion Stout
Ottawa
Nora Zentner
Thelma Walters
Charles
Gail Smith
Sim Swisher
Bob
George Zentner
Warren Whiteford
Garnett
Tom Walters
Willard Collins
Richmond
Honor Guest At Shower for Mrs Stottlemire
Mrs. Donald Stottlemire Lane was honor guest at a layette shower in the church annex Saturday evening. Hostesses were Mrs. Jerry Triplett, Mrs. Donald McDougal, and Mrs. Bill Robinson. The table featured a yellow and green color scheme with cupcakes decorated with baby figures.
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Donald Stottlemire
Lane
Church Annex
Jerry Triplett
Donald McDougal
Bill Robinson
August Bride Aldia Kay Pearson Heads to Calvary Baptist
Aldia Kay Pearson daughter of Mildred Hollander Ottawa and Melvin Pearson Emporia will wed Roy W. Stevens Davidson Oklahoma on August 30 at Calvary Baptist Church. After the wedding the couple will return to Fort Leonard Wood Missouri for eight weeks of training.
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Aldia Kay Pearson
Mildred Hollander
Ottawa
Melvin Joseph Pearson
Emporia
Calvary Baptist Church
Roy W. Stevens
H. L. Stevens
Davidson
Okla
Babies Named at Ransom Memorial Hospital
The Aug 18 to Aug 22 births list eight newborns with names and weights. Rhonda Lynn Small weighs 6 lb 14 oz. James Allen Conner 8 lb 12 oz. Diane Kay Good 7 lb 8 oz. Pamela Sue Glasegow 9 lb 15 oz. Sandra Kay Hess 7 lb 14 oz. Thomas Robert Crabb 7 lb 2 oz. Sandy Lynn Vore 8 lb 12 oz. Tamara Lynn Gore-Acke 7 lb 8 oz. Parents include Small, Conner, Good, Glasegow, Hess, Crabb, Vore, and Gore-Acke.
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Ransom Memorial Hospital
Ronald Leroy Small
N. Mulberry
Rhonda Lynn
Carl Dean Conner
S. Oak
James Allen
Carl Franklin Good
Edgerton
Diane Kay
Robert Edwin Glasegow
Vassar
Pamela Sue
Sylvester Levare Hess
Linwood
Sandra Kay
William Couch Crabb
Gardner
Kan
Thomas Robert
William Earle Dee Vore
Ottawa
RFD
Sandy Lynn
Jimmy Allen Goreacke
Pomona
Tamara Lynn
Socialettes from Garnett area list long travel breaks
Socialettes note several local families returning from travels. Will Bennett's household welcomed son Francis Bennett and his boys Greg Randy Rod and Stanley after two years in Uganda at Arapai Agricultural College with support from the College of West Virginia. Other households report visits to Parry Sound Ontario, travel through the Northwest including Rawlins Cheyenne and Weippe, a Los Alamos trip, and Jane Rucker of Garnett planning nurses training in Leavenworth after a 1966 Garnett High School graduate year.
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Will Bennett
Francis Bennett
Greg
Randy
Rod
Stanley
Uganda
Africa
Bennett
Arapai Agricultural College
The
College of West Virginia
Jane Rucker
Frank Rocker
Garnett
Leavenworth
St. Mary’s College
Garnett High School
Williams Family Reunion Brings Kin Together in Forest Park
The 32nd Williams family reunion gathered at Forest Park with attendees including Earl and Mrs. Griffin of Burlington, Elmer Williams and family from Yates Center, Cecil Hutchinson of Delavan, Kan., Elmer Williams Jr. and Brenda from Waverly, Everett Powner and Gwen of Paola, Vernon Rossenboom of Emporia, Bill Woods and children of Kansas City, MO, Walter Willis family, Vergie Myers of Ottawa, William Foster of Rantoul, Duane Williams from Eldon and Dale, Puallup, Wash., and Howard Johnson of Wichita.
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Williams
Forest Park
Earl Griffin
Burlington
Davie Etter
Verne
Elmer Williams
Yates Center
Cecil Hutchinson
Delavan
Kan
Elmer Williams Jr
Brenda
Lyle
Waverly
Everett Powner
Gwen
Paola
Vernon Rossenboom
Emporia
Bill J. Woods
Kansas City
W. K. Blunts
Walter Willis
Vergie Myers
Ottawa
William Foster
Rantoul
Duane Williams
Eldon and Dale
Puyallup
Wash
Howard Johneson
Wichita
Entertains For Sister In Rural Gare Nett Gathering
A family gathering was held Sunday at the home of Mr. and Mrs. Frank Kueser in Gare Nett to honor Mrs. Theresa Schmitz of Elgin. Attending were Mr. and Mrs. Francis Kueser and children of Overland Park, the Albert and Raymond Wittman families of Garnett, the Ralph and Harold Kueser families of Louisburg, and Mr. and Mrs. Jerry Robertson and family and Mr. and Mrs. Joe Kueser of Richmond.
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Frank Kueser
Garenett
Theresa Schmitz
Elgin
Francis Kueser
Overland Park
Albert
Raymond Wittman
Garnett
Ralph
Harold Kueeser
Louisburg
Jerry Robertson
Joe Kueser
Richmond
Dinner For Olson Family Dinner For Olson Family
Rural Richmond hosts Olson kin gathering with Glen Wharton and Sid Jarvis among attendees. List includes H C Richardson Ottawa Gorden Olson Westphalia Clinton Olson Top eka Herbert Olson Princeton Enor Olson Jim Lankard and families Garnett. Total attendees span multiple towns.
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Glen Wharton
Richmond
Olson
Sid Jarvis
Kansas City
H. C. Richardson
Ottawa
Gorden Olson
Westphalia
Clinton Olson
Topeka
Herbert Olson
Princeton
Enor Olson
Jim Lankard
Garnett
Birthday Party Honors Mrs. Anna Teter at Surprise Dinner
Family and friends gathered to honor Mrs. Anna Teter of Garnett with a surprise birthday dinner at her rural home. Attendees included Mr. and Mrs. Larry Teter of Kansas City and several relatives from Wichita Colony Richmond Valley Center Gray's Lake Michigan area, all extending congratulations to Mrs. Teter and family.
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Anna Teter
Garnett
Larry Teter
Kansas City
Garry Horner
Wichita
Bob Hiestand
Colony
Dennis Callahan Jr
Don Hermreck
Don Poss
Richmond
Norman Teter
Valley Center
Calif
Bill Koehler
Gray’s Lake, Ml
To Teach In North Africa
Roland G. Anderson will depart Thursday from Kansas City to Charleston and then fly to Wheelus Air Force Base near Tripoli Libya. He will serve as a physical science instructor at the base high school for dependents of American military personnel.
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Roland G. Anderson
Richemond
Wheelus Afb
Tripoli
Libya
North Africa
Kansas City
Delta Air Line
Charleston
Ss. C
Ma.t.s. Air Line
Reunion At Valley View
The Rubick Domnanish reunion was held Sunday in Valley View Community House. Attendees included Mr and Mrs J B Domnanish, Louise Welsch, Gregory Peine of Ottawa, Gene Domnanish and family, Edward Domnan ish of Topeka, A J Smith of Troy, Kamuf family of Kansas City Mo, Brook family of Bemidji Minn, Rubick family of John ny and Alvin Rubick, Peed, Miller and Johnson families from multiple towns.
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Valley View Community House
J. B. Domnanish
Louise R. Welsch
Gregory Peine
Ottawa
Gene Domnanish
Patty
Dennis
Rita
Carolyn
Jimmy
Terry Joe
Princeton
Edward Domnanish
Stanley
Joan
Sharon
Topeka
A. J. Smith
Troy
Kans
Richard Kamuf
Ricky
Billy
Frank
Anna
Rose
John
Kansas City
G. D. Brook
Duane
Bemidji
Minn
John Rubick
Johnny
Susie
Jeff
Neil Peed
Charles Peed
Joyce
Francis
Williamsburg
Alvin Rubick
Kay
Carl
Richmond
Melvin Miller
Angela
Mel
Mark
Gena
Maple Hill
Fred Johnson
Chanute
Foley-Ruddick Vows Exchanged Saturday
Verna Arlene Foley and Robert Gilbert Ruddick wed Saturday at North Baptist Church with Rev James Whistler presiding. The bride wore slipper satin with lace jacket and a pearl tiara, carrying a yellow baby mum bouquet. groom’s attire and attendants listed. The couple, living at 815 S Mulberry, Ott awa University senior bride and Plastex employee groom, hosted a reception for family including out-of-town guests from New Jersey.
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North Baptist Church
Verna Arlene Fosley
Vernon Foley
Merrill
Kan
Robert Gilbert Ruddick
Larry Pearson
Marlene Whistler
Frank Brown
Albany
Calif
Bill Eubanks
Bill Kohler
Betsy Ruddick
Mary Ruddick
Woodbury
N. J
Verenon Foley
S. Mulberry
Ottawa University
P. Theta Chi
Plastex
Ottawa
Woodbury High School
R. A. Ruddick
Point Pleasant
B. H. Gilbert
Haddonfield
Coupled travelers tour several western states and sights
Mr. and Mrs. Grover Froge gatte of Princeton and Mr. and Mrs. Homer Russell of Lane vacationed across Kane sas Oklahoma New Mexico Old Mexico and Colorado. They visited relatives in Protection Kan Bess Girk and Jess DeBoss Beaver Okla Chester Russell Anthony N M and Filo Girk at Truth or Consequences NM. They toured Carlsbad Caverns attended dog races visited glass factories the Royal Gorge and Pike s Peak.
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Grover Frogegatte
Princeton
Homer Russell
Lane
Kanesas
Oklahoma
New Mexico
Old Mexico
Colorado
W. W. Girk
Family
Protection
Kan
Bess Girk
Jess DeBoss
Beaver
Okla
Chester Russell
Anethony
N. M
Filo Girk
Truth Or Consequences
Carlsbad Caverns
Royal Gorge
Pike’s Peak
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