Gentle discipline and the power of courtesy in parenting
A reader argues against corporal punishment for children and shares cases from a mother who used varied methods. She cites Jacob Abbott on gentle training, describes tethering a runaway and using baths to calm fits, and notes fire safety banners to deter fire play, emphasizing that punishment should fit the crime and teach self control.
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Jacob Abbott
Parison
Mrs. Herritk
Parents debate corporal punishment and pocket money
Readers share views on spanking a 13 year old, praise for gentle discipline, and questions on pocket money. A mother of eight endorses honor and deprivation over harsh discipline, while another argues reading fosters literature interest from childhood.
Courtesies That Count in Everyday Life
A brief essay on how politeness and manners function as social currency. It argues that saying please and thank you shapes interactions, reduces stinginess, and transforms requests into courteous exchanges rather than demands.
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Jones Brothers
Jane
The Garden Youth's Companion Poem Moment
A speaker recalls looking into a baby's eyes and detecting a seed of love. A smile from the child soon grows into a blossoming affection, capturing a tender moment of parental delight.
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Baby
Child Confessions and Self-Disclosure in Family Life
A reader asks about tattling between siblings and how mothers should handle faults. The reply argues against harsh punishment and recommends training children to confess their own errors in a calm, non intimidating way to encourage honest self reporting.
Bennie and the soap a caution on mothering and truth
A reader recalls a mother using soap to stop a four year old from swearing. Bennie pretended to cease, yet confessed he could still swear, showing the danger of forcing lies. The writer argues for training schools for mothers to better guide children.
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Bennie
My Dear Mrs Herrick on Kindergartens and Mothers
The author argues that the problem lies with motherhood not kindergartens, noting women's instinct to give affection and support often overwhelms efforts to teach self-control and self-reliance. They seek further input from mothers on kindergarten impact and outcomes for children.
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Mrs. Herrick
Riddle Salad Fun Promotes Quieter Party Games
A familiar salad idea is reimagined with riddles written on green leaves for players to solve within ten minutes. Old and new conundrums, with marked adjectives and adverbs, guide readers to fill missing words and win a prize for the most correct answers.
Handy kitchen rags from small leftovers
The housekeeper should save tiny muslin or linen scraps for handy uses. Cut into squares or strips and store in a box with a hooked lid. Use to wipe greasy dishes, polish fruit, clean vegetables, grease the griddle, and later burn to rekindle a fire.
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BY Christine Teraune
Herrick
Wie
Riley
F.W. O
Helen Bruce Wallace