Joneses and the trap of keeping up with them
Mary Manners offers etiquette guidance on social pressure and economic risk arising from trying to imitate wealth. A reader asks how to gently address a partner’s focus on status. Advice cautions against vanity in relationships and urges choosing depth over outward show.
Monticello Bridge Party Winners and Socials Highlight Club
The Monticello Country club hosted a benefit bridge at the clubhouse on Tuesday with prizes awarded to numerous local members including Mrs. Charles Northrup and Miss Caroline Hicks. Out of town guests Georgia Miller Irene Slivken and Mrs Minnie Hansen attended, while future events were announced and committees listed for upcoming social and civic gatherings.
MENTIONED IN THIS ARTICLE
Monticello Country Club
Charles Northrup
E. J. Farrey
Fred McLaughlin
Wade Long
Frank Stimson
Lyle McMullen
Caroline Hicks
Mona Trafton
Will Tuetken
George Timmins
L. F. Balster
Leonard Iverson
B. C. Roberts
Ralph Bone
Georgia Miller
Fayette
Irene Slivken
Dubuque
Minnie Hansen
Eagle Grove
Charles A. Coxsee
Harry Rodman
Meyer Slivken
H. M. Carpenter, Jr
Virginia Ferring
Vivian Bancroft
Virginia Schneider
Walter Brainerd
Country Club
A. J. Stuhler
L. J. Smith
Mary Coxsee
H. Richardson
Matt Muller
Harry Hoag
Marguerite Aitchison
H. M. Carpenter
Oxford
Millington Carpenter
University of Mississippi
South
Thomas Hamilton
Delta Delt
Meyer Slivkem
Congregational Church
E. G. Hicks
Wanda Podhaski
Josephine Ricklefs
S. G. Gutensohn
Agnes Gearhart
Albert Stuhler
Wyoming Ladies Aid Groups Attend July Meetings
Mrs Lyle Marshall and Mrs Ernest Weller hosted division One of the M E Ladies Aid at the E R Marshall home. Mrs Martin Petersen and others led July Lutheran Ladies Aid at Mrs Louis Schladetsky s home. Presbyterian Industrial Society met at Mrs Gordon Marshall s home with assisting hostesses. Pollyann circle met with Mrs Ernest Reitz and Mrs Lyle Jenkins at Mrs Reitz s home. Luther league held a July social at the Westphal home. Cc T T club was hosted by Mrs J W Morse and Mrs Frank Henderson. Ruth Alden entertained Wyoming High School class of 1909 at the Alden home for Mr and Mrs E H Ericksen of Chevy Chase Md.
MENTIONED IN THIS ARTICLE
Wyoming
Lyle Marshall
Ernest Weller
M. E. Ladies Aid Society
E. R. Marshall
Martin Petersen
Louis Schladetsky
Wilbure Juhring
Howard Day
Lutheran Ladies Aid Society
Presbyterian Industrial Society
Gordon Marshall
Claude Sears
Lester French
James Inglis
B. G. Milner
Pollyann
Ernest Reitz
Lyle Jenkins
Luther League
Florence
Paul Westphal
H. P. J. Westphal
J. W. Morse
Frank Henderson
Cc. T. T
Ruth Alden
Wyoming High School
A G. Alden
E. H Ericksen
Chevy Chase
Springville Social Roundup Highlights Visiting Guests And Events
Local notices recount a party in honor of Wilma Carbee McGrew of San Bernardino by Mrs. June Gibson with guests from Anamosa Marion Des Moines Minneapolis Davenport Central City and Chicago. Other gatherings include dinners picnics church groups Camp Fire Girls and a Sunday school swimming contest with several local residents named.
MENTIONED IN THIS ARTICLE
June Gibson
Wilma Carbee McGrew
San Bernardino
Calif
Della
van Kirk
Anamosa
Ray White
Marion
Forest Smith
Des Moines
Kathryn ‘Tate
Minneapolis
Cecil Young
Davenport
Ava Calvert
Freda Taylor
Lawrence’ Begley
Martha Raff
Bernice Daniels
Della Miller
Margaret Lacock
Alta McGrew
Cecil Cooper
Central City
Minnie Wilson
Anna Bailey
Wilma’ McGrew
Henry Carbee
Samuel Palmer
William Wild
Esther Muensterman
Chicago
Ina Hunte
Grace Wellner
Mountain Home
Ark
Edna Wild
May Carter
Cedar Falls
Paul Holst
Vivian Johnston
Presbyterian Missionary, Society
Elizabeth Burroughs
Lena Mann
Camp Fire
Maurita Hoffman
Mildred Irons
Lois Newman
Mary Jean Cooper
Virginia White
Margaret Wells
Betty Jeanne Levien
Carol Burroughs
Arleta Smith
Nelda Healy
Robert Emerson
Grange Hall
Albert Switzer
Wilbur Whitaker
Darwin Beck
Wilbur Stearns
Pat Dunlap
William Palmer
Ray Bishop
Hazel Patten
Patten
Lois Patten
Ellen Lehr
Doris Lehr
Jean Rotert
Hazel Rotert
Iva Mae
Local Social Notes Highlight Belle Plaine Gatherings
Sunday family dinner honored Charles Dodd on his twentieth birthday hosted by Belle Plaine residents Belle Plaine social pages list out of town guests including Mr and Mrs Charles Cash Cedar Rapids and Mrs Mary Comer Chicago. Several bridge and club events feature Miss Sibyl McCune entertaining Tama attendees for a Tama Tama event with Isabel Dee Aug 2 and Kitchen shower at Tama.
MENTIONED IN THIS ARTICLE
Tom Dodd
Charles
Charles Cash
Cedar Rapids
E. K. Clear
Thelma Shadle
Wilma _ Sullivan
Charles Hite
Vinton
Ella Stok
Chicago
Verne Miller
Earl Comer
Mary Comer
Clarence Rathmann
Janice
Davenport
Milton Mansfield
W. W. Mansfield
Tama
Joseph Jones
Robert
Thomas Murray
J. D. Blue
Edward Snyder
Snyder
Iowa State College
Ames
State University of Maine
Sibyl McCune
Bridge
Isabel Dee
Alvin Kouba
Carleen Brice
Mount Vernon
Ruth Ann Baker
Boone
Verna Zhorne
Glada Davis
Dorothy Mason
Vera McKinney
May-Floyd Sinex
Isabel Butterfield
Genevieve Siebert
David Terry
Local social notes from Anamosa County dinners and visitors
Nellie V. Morey hosted a dinner Monday honoring Miss Lena Miller and Miss Clara Mader of Spokane. Sunday guests included Mrs. T. E. Watters and son George and the James A. Remley family. A dinner party Sunday hosted by Warden and Mrs. W. H. Frazer included several local families and physicians. Clara Rawson of St. Louis is visiting Dr. E. G. Rawson. Mr. and Mrs. R. A. Beeson depart for Davenport to start a new home.
MENTIONED IN THIS ARTICLE
Nellie V. Morey
Lena Miller
Clara Mader
Spokane
Wash
T. E. Watters
George
James A. Remley
N. A. Hanson
Warden
W. H. Frazer
R. L. McMickle
G. A. Turner
B. Herb
G. A. Wilkinson
Clara Rawson
St. Louis
E. G. Rawson
R. A. Beeson
Anamosa
Davenport
Hopkinton Socials and Birthdays Highlight Local News
Mrs B A Moore and Mrs A R Stanger hosted a Thursday bridge at the Moore home with five tables. William Bradke marked his eighty ninth birthday at home with four children and grandchildren present. Reformed Presbyterian church youths planned an August convention led by Paul Ferguson of Hopkinton. The Blaker reunion gathered many relatives at John Blaker’s home. Local ladies aid and church groups held gatherings at Buck Creek church and fish hatchery picnic.
MENTIONED IN THIS ARTICLE
Anna Wilson
Frank Bradke
Central City
Reformed, Presbyterian ‘Church
R. E. Allen
People’s
Paul
Ferguson
Hopkinton
Manchester
Betty Smith
Ruth Bryan
Rita Rees
Mable Casteel
Pierce
Mount Vernon Social Roundup Observes Farewell and Gatherings
Members of Chapter DT PEO hosted a dinner for Mrs Eva Blue departing for Orono Maine where she will live with her daughter Mrs Edward Snyder an instructor at the university. Out of town guests joined activities across the community with bridge parties picnics and family dinners.
Anne Adams Frocks Patterns For Summer And Fall
Charming patterns 4064 and 4083 offer flattering ragged yokes elbow sleeves and flared skirts in crepe georgette or wool georgette fabrics. Sizes listed with yardage 39 inch. Prices 15 cents pattern 18 cents for both book 15. Send orders to The Cedar Rapids Gazette Pattern Department New York address.
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Anne Adams
Cedar Rapids Gazette Pattern Department
West Seventeenth Street
New York
N. Y
Local Social Aims and Family Travel Notes
Mrs S B Wenger travels to Harrisonburg Virginia for a six week family reunion. Howard White and family tour the west visiting Washington state and California relatives. Orville Moore leaves for California for a month. Miss Iowa Jean Huber is honored at a surprise lawn party and departs with her parents for Washington. Maurine Brower visits Manchester Indiana relatives.
MENTIONED IN THIS ARTICLE
S. B. Wenger
Harrisonburg
Howard White
Keith
Maxine
West
Washington State
California
Orville Moore
Iowa
Jean Huber
Frank Brower
Huber
Washington
Maurine Brower
Manchester
Ind
S&s. E. Brower
Social notices from Shellsburg and Center Point
The Happy Twenty club met at Mrs. Frank King’s home in Shellsburg. The American Legion Auxiliary was installed by County Chairman Hazel Engelbert in Garrison. Rev L W Inman’s birthday and a dinner at William Rambo home with Mrs Ethel Tumulty and Mrs Amelia Husted. The Dorcas circle held an all day park meeting. A shower for Mrs Loraine Walker at the Oscar Walker home. Marie Helva to Lorraine Walker announced for July 6 at Laurier Point City. ceremony by Rev C Jones. couple to live in Cedar Rapids. A bride shower given by Mrs Anna Lockhart and Velma Walker at the Walker home. Mrs Kenneth Eggleston of Vinton honored at a shower hosted by Mrs Homer Sheeley with Mrs Lawrence Evens assisting.
MENTIONED IN THIS ARTICLE
Happy Twenty Club
Frank
King
Mae
American Legion Auxilia
Hazel. Engelbert
Garrison
L. W. Inman
Federated Church
Inman
William Rambo
Ethel Tumulty
Amelia Husted
Dorcas
Loraine ‘Walker
Oscar Walker
Joe Helva
Center Point
Marie
Lorraine Walker
Shellsburg
LalPort
Kenneth Eggleston
Vinton
Homer
Sheeley
Lawrence Evens
Elwood Wirth Celebrates 60th Birthday with Kin at Iowa Dinner
Elwood Arthur Wirth marked his 60th birthday with relatives at a dinner hosted by his son in Maquoketa Delmar Lost Nation and Oxford Junction areas were represented by kin including Mr and Mrs Wirth Gronwoldt Ketelsen Wendel Paulsen Waugh and others from Maquoketa Delmar Lost Nation and DeWitt Nashville and DeWitt areas.
MENTIONED IN THIS ARTICLE
Arthur ‘Wirth
Buren Cornish
William Gronwoldt
Lile
Frank Wirth
Charles Wendel
Jimmie
Maquoketa
Charles Bennis
Edward Waugh
Ernest
Marie
Emil Paulsen
Arnold
Delmar
Lena Hohn
George Creger
Henry Paulsen
Lost Nation
Oxford Junction
Ruby Potter
DeWitt
Winston Schepers and Son
Nashville
Glen
Elwood Couple Host Five-Hundred Party Highlights
Cousins of Clinton and Elwood residents Mr and Mrs Albert Miller hosted a five hundred gathering. High prizes went to Virtus Rutenbeck and Albert Miller, with low prizes to Albert Miller and Virtus Rutenbeck. Attendees included Mr and Mrs Gilbert Riggs Mr and Mrs Harlan Benton Mr and Mrs Almond Creger Mr and Mrs Lawrence Hartvigsen.
MENTIONED IN THIS ARTICLE
Clinton
Alex Wirth
Donald ‘Wirth
Raymond Wirth
Elwood
Albert Miller
Virtus Rutenbeck
Harlan Benton
Almond Creger
Lawrence Hartvigsen
West Branch Reunion and Local Socials Highlight Weekend
West Branch high school classes of 1906 07 08 and 09 held a Sunday reunion in Town City Park with families. Mrs Lena Sorensen hosted a Saturday eve reception for Mr and Mrs Paul Nopar of Chicago. A Wanda Mae Christensen birthday party for six girls was held with further gatherings at the Christensen homes and with several Christensen and Jensen families visiting. Cy Lucille Colony spoke to Standard Bearers at Ruth Kader home. W F M S and Clara Swain auxiliary events were hosted by Mrs A I Erb and others with devotional stewardship and lawn party at Methodist church. Suk
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West Branch High School
Lena Sorensen
Paul Nopar
Chicago
Viggo Christensen
Wanda Mae
Hulda Christensen
Parvin Jensen
Dennis Paulsen
Lars .Sondergard
Aage Christensen
C. E. Christensen
Anton Jensen
Lucille Colony
India
Ruth Kader
Lillian Johnson
F.E. Corbin
Mrs. Cozine
A. I. Erb
W. G. Fitzsimmons
Laura Gray
Clara Swain
Methodist’ Church
Local Picnic and Slumber Party Honor Chicago and Monroe Guests
Toledo Miss Mildred Lollar of Chicago and Miss Elizabeth Pye of Monroe were honored at a Clark Park picnic Tuesday and a slumber party at Miss Mary Dugan's home on Wednesday. Attending were Miss Barbara Mentzel Mildred Minard Pauline Kremenak Harriet Harlow Jostin Bushnagel Vega Clark Glee Beck Lauralee Silver Edith Formanek.
MENTIONED IN THIS ARTICLE
Mildred Lollar
Chicago
Elizabeth Pye
Monroe
Clark Park
Mary Dugan
Barbara Mentzel
Mildred
Minard
Pauline’ Kremenak
Harriet Harlow
Jostin Bushnagel
Vega Clark
Glee Beck
Lauralee
Silver
Edith: Formanek
Local social clubs host gatherings and entertainment
IGathigais North Liberty and Priscilla club members met at local homes with Mrs Elma Colony and Mrs Angeline Gordon presiding. Prizes were won by Minnie Coglan and Lize zte Lininger. A scavenger hunt near Wallace Adams drew nine couples with Edward Myers and Esther Zeller as victors. refreshments followed.
MENTIONED IN THIS ARTICLE
Elma Colony
Tiffin
Lila Alt
Mary Wolfe
Alma Wolfe
Priscilla Club
Angeline Gordon
Gordon
Cora Young
Minnie Coglan
Lizezte Lininger
Moreland Colony
Elecanor
Sarah Young
L. Ramsey
Edith Palmer
Mary Smith
Cleveland
N. Ds
Wallace Adams
Here
Edward Myers
Esther Zeller
Lloyd Myers
Bernice Anderson
Quilting and social gatherings at local Christian church
Brandon The Loyal Women of the Christian church held an all day quilting on Wednesday. Members and visitors include Mrs. Harry Short Mrs. W. F. Short Mrs. W. F. Farmer Mrs. Ed Miller Mrs. Virgil Bagley Mrs. William Farmer Mrs. Caura Ward Mrs. Fay Pardon and Mrs. Susie Towne along with the O D O club guest Mrs. Harold Weart and visitors Velda and Erma Stainbrook Jeanette Briggs Lucille McKee Dorothy and June Albert Roland Short and Mrs Nettie Farmer. A picnic dinner preceded a quilting session and a program by Velda and Erma Stainbrook Lucille McKee spoke on her trip to New York City. The next meeting is planned with Mrs Florence Weber on Aug 14. Miss Helen Ehrensburger of Preston, visiting local former Iowa State Teachers College friends, was honored at a picnic supper and swimming party Wednesday evening with Elaine Rouse Velda Stainbrook Helen Hausner Ruth and Mildred Bender present.
MENTIONED IN THIS ARTICLE
Loyal Women of the Christian Church
Harry Short
W. F. Short
W. F. Farmer
Ed Miller
Virgil Bagley
William Farmer
Caura Ward
Fay Pardon
Susie Towne
O.D. O. Club
Harold Weart
Velda
Erma _ Stainbrook
Jeanette Briggs
Lucille McKee
Dorothy
June Albert
Roland Short
Nettie Farmer
Erma Stain
Brook
New York City
Florence Weber
Helen
Ehrensburger
Preston
Iowa State ‘Teachers College
Elaine
Rouse
Stainbrook
Helen’ Hausner
Ruth and
Mildred
Bender. Co
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