Dear Abby etiquette quandary on wedding gifts and no show risk
A reader frets over attending a wedding after hosts admitted they would return expensive shower gifts for cash. The letter advises notifying the couple of plans change to avoid rude, and suggests handling the no show gracefully. A second reader asks how to respond after exposing a medical condition by emailing a link with details. Abby recommends discussing with HR and limiting information to one trusted coworker.