Dear Abby Letter on What Makes a Lousy Lover
A reader seeks a definition of a lousy lover, and Dr. Margreta Klassen suggests sexual compatibility is negotiated between consenting adults with privacy. She advises seeking a licensed sex therapist if needed and notes that communication helps, though some issues go beyond talk. Anonymous letters describe poor hygiene, selfishness, and lack of attentiveness as key faults. The column previews tomorrow’s readers’ responses on what makes a great lover.