My inner dinosaur pines for old manners and music
Otis Gardner reflects on generational shifts in music and manners from the 1950s to today. He recalls how parents reacted to early rock and roll, the change in gender roles, and his own struggle to balance respect for old norms with contemporary behavior. He notes daily observations at Cracker Barrel and adults’ conduct, ending with contact info for his weekly column.
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Mom
Elvis
Bill Haley
the Comets
Virginia
New York
Dad
Cracker Barrel
Lost Cause ideals shaped Southern identity across generations
The author recounts childhood in the Children of the Confederacy and UDC influence, tracing how schools, monuments, and civic spaces propagated a pro Confederacy narrative. He contrasts late awakening to factual history with college study that exposed slavery’s central role, urging a national reckoning with memory and white supremacy embedded in regional culture.
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Children of the Confederacy
United Daughters of the Confederacy
Confederate
South
UDC
Charlottesville
Lost Cause
Mildred Lewis Rutherford
Montana
Confederacy
Dixie
Robert E. Lee
Thomas “Stonewall” Jackson
Robert E. Lee High School
Jacksonville
Florida
University of Mississippi
Ole Miss Rebels
Winthrop Jordan
Lee
Stonewall Jackson
Union
Jefferson Davis
Mississippi
Deliverance
Alexander Stephens
Ohio
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