Manners trump laws in social etiquette debate
A prominent lawyer argues manners are essential to civil society and should be instinctive, not learned from etiquette books. The piece notes childhood training, generational transfer, and the role of women as arbiters of dress and social usage, with social events and debutante mentions illustrating etiquette in practice.
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Dame Fashion
Beau Brummell
Dancing and social events fill San Antonio’s November scene
Numerous social notices describe engagements, receptions, costume parties, and club meetings across San Antonio. Nellie Stapler presents her daughter at the St. Anthony Hotel. various Halloween dances, coffee hours, and society gatherings feature families like the Phelps, Morris, Heiligs, Kaufmans, and Taylors, alongside club programs and charitable events.
Debutantes Shine in Fort Sam Houston Social Season
Miss Marie Thayer, daughter of Major and Mrs. Arthur Thayer, will be active in post and town society at Fort Sam Houston. Mrs. Charles L. Grunder of Cuero, visiting former Miss Wilhelmina Schmitt, joins social events after her recent marriage. Miss Nellie Stapler and Miss Margery Hicks attended a buffet hosted by Mrs. Fra Paschal. Colonel Charles G. Treat’s daughter, Miss Margaret Treat, returns from the East and will be presented to society this season.
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Octavia Bullis
Fort Sam Houston
Mildred Morris
Hosea Morris
Bessie Heilig
Linda Heilig
Florentine Heilig
Automobile Club
John J. Stevens
Mesdames
George B. Taliaferro
Frank Lewis
Herman G. Staacke
Luther Bynum Clegg
George Keene
Thomas L. Conroy
Hallowe'en
Third Cavalry
S&ss
Mesdames Wells, Kischell, Brown and Gill
J. J. Arthur
The
Equal Franchise Society
Dallas
W. E. Spell
Waco
L. A. Walker
Austin
Reppert
Marin B. Fenwick
William L. Dunne
City
Kate Gordon
New Orleans
San Antonio
George ‘Knauff
Warren Street
Yale Hicks
Mra Knauff
Mae Coltrane
W. G. Flanders
AER
Marie Thayer
Major
Arthur Thayer
Charles L. Grunder
Cuero
W. F. Schmitt
Nellie Stapler
John B. Stapler
Oine Stapler
Margery Hicks
Fra Paschal
Miss Margaret Treat
Charles G. Treat
Miss Treat
East
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Grace Mimms
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Ethel Holmgreen
Annie Lee Kerr
Stephen Watts Kearney
Harriet Grigg
Bessie McLauren
Nell Pryor
Dorothea Guenther
Amanda Guenther
Fanita McMillan
Lydia Moore
Josephine Woodhull
Nellis Stapler
Yadie Clamp
Ethel Goggan
South Dakota
Minneapolis
Chicago
Lexington
Joseph Aronoss
Naomi
Stella Hagy
University At Austin
W. N. Hagy
Judge
Thomas 0. Murphy
West Cypress Street
Misrlarie Thayer
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St. Anthony Hotel
John W. Vann
West Texas Military Academy
Henry Phelps
Lola Boykin Kaufman
Hal Wilson Tucker
Central Christian Church
Sallie Hildebrand
Ide Potello
Vivien Nolen
Hollis Tucker
Jack Nolen
Louis Melas Jr
George Melliff
Lockhart
Joseph Laux
Frost Woodhull
New York
Andrew P. Calhoun
Patrick
Marybelle White
Post Gymnasium
Misses Hazel
Adele Shaw
Deana Laden
Michigan
Wis
Illinois
Phoenix Club
Hugh B. Rice
Nolan Street
W. W. Lipscomb
Ruth Lipscomb
France
Germany
Austria
J. D. Phelan
Violet
Katie Bond
Gunter
A. G. Seamands
George Norwood Witting
Irene Zizik
West
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Travis Park Society
Philathea
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Methodist Church
Shakespeare Club
Government Hill
EB. B. Alling
Norway
Sweden
aWéden
J. H. Reagan
S&s S
Twentieth Century Study Club
Maverick Hotel
Roll
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Hunstock Avenue
R. M. Bacon
Crosby Street
T. W. Campbell
Woman's Club
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Symond
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Byron
Childe Harold
Venus
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Bayard Taylor
Yriarte
Florence
Grant Allen
Baedeker
Howell
San Antonio de Bexar
Daughters of the American Revolution
Mabel Massey Bates
Wiliam L. Dunne
T. W. Beck
William Cassin
J. M. Roberts
R. G. Munro
T. N. Devine
James Macdonald
R. L. Robertson
E. P. Jersig
Pape Peteyes
Ss S
the Merry Wives’ Dancing Club
St. Anthony
S&s FS
San Antonio Cotillion Club
Dick O. Terrell
Wallace Newton
J. Frank Gallagher
Robert Barclay
Walter W. McAllister
St. Ursula
Ursuline Order
Ursuline
Augusta Street
C. Cagiiardoni
St the Baraca
Pine Street Presbyterian Church
W. E. Goodrich
E. D. Adams
D. B. Goodrich
R. I. Kilgore
Richard Lott
Jack
Asbury Withers
Annie Rose Scott
New Jersey
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