Helpless Monster in-law and troubled family ties
A reader warns about a long running conflict with her partner’s alcoholic mother who belittles her and disrupts visits. Amy advises maintaining distance when family dynamics are volatile, supporting the partner, and planning escape or boundaries until behavior changes. The column also covers how a mother should visit a daughter when welcome in the home is in question and etiquette for guests with aging relatives.
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How to Dress for Holidays on a Budget
Dear Heloise offers budget friendly holiday style tips. Start with basic black and add subtle color with accessories. Reuse a black dress or pants set by swapping scarves blouses shoes or earrings. Avoid trends and uncomfortable itchy fabrics. Look for upscale T shirts in the men's section for cheaper options and prioritize comfort for long celebrations.
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Secondhand and resale bargains for quality designer pieces
Readers share tips on finding high quality designer items at good prices in secondhand and resale shops. Advice covers home cleaning for guests, reminders to grab phones, and securing personal data when disposing of old computers to protect banking and investment information.
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Shelly S
Community Recreation and Bingo Schedule Note
Arm Chair Aerobics runs at Cedar Square Apartments 1550 S Cedar St Ottawa on Mondays Thursdays and Fridays. Public Bingo occurs Tuesdays and Fridays at VFW Post No 5901 Ottawa 3599 Old U S 59 Ottawa.
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