Just Plain Folks Defend Hostess Service Practices
Readers push back against Abby’s view of table etiquette arguing that hostesses should not be forced to push food or drinks on guests. They cite budget limits and differing dining expectations while insisting that offering and allowing guests to decide is proper. Out Our Way notes reflect varied household norms.
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Abby
Spauke
Old-Fashioned Baker And The Guest Dilemma
A reader recalls a baker who offered home baked bread and green apple pie to guests, but would not parcel small portions for a whole family. Another letter notes the guest who responds by offering to join if the host has something, highlighting social dynamics in sharing.
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Abby
Dear Abby Reader Says Hosts Should Ask Guests First
A reader criticizes host etiquette for serving food and drinks without asking guests if they want anything. The letter argues guests should choose to partake or decline and cites a relative who overfeeds at all hours.
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Abby
Pastor's Wife Seeks Diet Help From Parishioners
Dear Abby letters reveal a pastor’s wife asking parishioners to stop feeding her husband to aid his diet. She notes clothing bursting at the seams and constant offerings make weight loss hard, urging consideration without naming towns or herself.
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Abby
Abby’s Letter Help Offer From The Monroe Evening Times
Readers are asked to write to Abby in care of The Monroe Evening Times for a personal reply. Enclose a stamped self addressed envelope or send one dollar to Abby for her booklet HOW TO WRITE LETTERS FOR ALL OCCASIONS.
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Abby
Monroe Evening Times
Los Angeles
Calif
War Dead Total Went Up in 1964 War Dead Total Went Up in 1964
Defense Department figures show Viet Nam combat deaths rose sharply in 1965 with 1,365 American servicemen killed versus 146 the previous year. By year end 1965 there were 181,392 U.S. troops in Viet Nam, up from 23,000 in 1964.
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Washington
Uss
Defense Department
U.S
Viet Nam
United States
Died in Mishap Gottlieb Stocker of Rome Dies at 84
Details reach of accidental death of Gottlieb Stocker 34 years resident of Monroe with sister the late Mrs Fred Lengacher. Struck by car while crossing street to home died at hospital on December 17 1965. Survived by two children four brothers one sister and two grandchildren. Jehovahs Witnesses member. Funeral services held in East.
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Gottlieb Stocker
Rome
N.Y
Monroe
Fred Lengacher
Adolf Abplanalp
Stocker
Mr. Stocker
Switzerland
America
Minnesota
Ralph Drummond
Fred Stocker
Arnold
Utica
Fred
St. Paul
Minn
Robert
James
Freida Segesser
Jehovah’s Witnesses
East
Mrs. Polhill Stricken at 90 in Lena Illinois
Mrs. William Polhill 90 longtime Lena and Freeport resident died after brief illness in Freeport Memorial Hospital. Born Loella Werkheiser Sept 12 1875 in Kent Township she married William Polhill who preceded her in death. Survived by children Floyd Nelson and six more. 11 grandchildren 39 great grandchildren and six great great grandchildren. Funeral at Lena Methodist Church with burial in Lena Burial Park.
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Lena
Ill
William Polhill
Freeport Memorial Hospital
Loella Werkheiser
Kent Township
Amandus
Mary J. Werkheiser
Kent
Pearl Richtemeier
Lola Bloyer
Freeport
Edna Krupke
Floyd
Nelson
Emery Werkheiser
Warren
William
Lena Methodist Church
Lena Burial Park
Leamon Funeral Home
Willie Pieper Taken by Death
Willie C Pieper 62 died at his farm home after a long illness. Born June 25 1903 in Lorain Township he married Bernice Saxby February 9 1929. He farmed in Kent and Red Oak areas twenty years before moving to Lena in 1965. Survived by wife four daughters and five brothers. Services 1:30 p m Saturday Seamon Funeral Home burial Highland Cemetery Pearl City. Friends may call after 1 p m tomorrow.
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Lena
Willie C. Pieper
Loran Township
Antone
Bertha Minzlaff Pieper
Pearl City
Bernice Saxby
Kent
Red Oak
Mervin Bons
Joe Shianna
Freeport
Marlene Yaeger
Richard Symanek
Aaron
Harry
Nelson
Alvin
Seamon Funeral Home
Highland Cemetery
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