Cop spouses speak on isolation pride and risk
A Chicago area feature surveys police families. Officers and wives discuss public skepticism, isolation, and the balance of law and everyday life. Wives recall support from church and friends outside policing while praising their husbands as dedicated, protective providers.
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Nolans
Marcia Wagner
Chicago
The Nolans Endure Strain of Police Life and Marriage
Gaynell and William Nolan, both deeply devoted to family and faith, face the constant stress of long police careers. William, a veteran chief of police in Homewood, has survived sniper encounters and dangerous calls across 24 years on the force. They balance four children, religious study, and the prospect of William becoming a Catholic deacon, amid broader concerns about divorce rates among long marriages and police officers.
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Robin Roof
Gaynell Nolan
William Nolan
Homewood
New Orleans
Lily
Tom
Secret Service
Chief Nolan
Nolans
Archdiocese of
Chicago
Nolan
Police Divorce Rates and Alcohol Abuse Among Officers
A Chicago area feature explores how alcohol use and marriage strain affect police, noting high divorce rates and stress while profiling officers and families from Oak Forest Markham and the PTI. It highlights an officer who sought treatment, recovery, and the message that personal issues are excuses, not causes, of drinking.
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Mitch
Police Life Families Face Steady Strain From Field Stress
Myra Eder Guindon and Jerry Marmozewicz report on a ton seminar that informs spouses and families of police graduates about the job and its impact. A study suggests pre career training helps families adapt, while officers confront seamy calls, death scenes, and coping rituals. Lily, a long time friend of a south suburb lieutenant, reflects on the harsh realities and ongoing strain of police life.
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Lily
Greg Okon
Orland Park
Mikki Okon
John Wayne Syndrome Strains Police Marriages
A study of police couples shows mood shifts after tough shifts and a macho John Wayne persona, with Sgt Kaupas promoting self-hypnosis. Carol Gammill and Rosanne Kaupas describe coping by humor and affection, while Roger Corbett’s wife notes his silence. Turn to Page 8 for more.
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Kaupas
Sgt. Kaupas
Carol
Todd Gammill
Hazel Crest
Carol Gammill
Linda Evans
Todd
Andrew
Roger
Mrs. Corbett
Rosanne Kaupas
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Jack Mattes
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Marsha Miller
Markham
Joel Miller
Roseanne Kaupas
Fred Kaupas
Park Forest South
Dennis Chlebos
Oak Forest
Mickey Rooney
Clifford van Meter
Police Training Institute
PTI
University of Illinois
Champaign
Career Orienta
McDonald’s
Myra Eder Guindon
Jerry Marmozewicz
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Park Forest South Reservists
Dimstion
Roger Corbett
Riverdale