Maid of Honor Dilemma and Career Reflections
A reader seeks tactful guidance on asking a 250 pound friend to be maid of honor and whether she should host a wedding shower. Ann Landers dismisses cruelty and notes multiple readers share concerns about weight impacting photos and roles. The column also covers workplace fairness in family businesses and a request to handle a sensitive relative’s engagement.
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Ann Landers
Social Calendar for May 4 Nearby Churches and Clubs
The May 4 calendar lists events from Friendly Thimble Club at 1015 N Grant to various Women’s Missionary groups, Circle meetings, Rainbow Division dinner, and church activities across Grace Episco pal Sawyer Hall Zion Lutheran Zion. Includes locations at First Methodist First Presbyterian United Brethren and Nazarene Church with one 1:30 p.m gathering and a 7:50 p.m. Christian Women’s Fellowship.
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Friendly Thimble Club
Louella Dewson
N. Grant
Women's Missionary Society
Avenue Baptist
Women’s Society of Christian Ser Ice
First Methodist Church
United Presbyterian Women
Church
Women’s Missionary Assn
United Brethren In Christ Church
Rainbow Division
St. Anne Chapter
Grace Episcopal Church
Sawyer Hall
WMS
Nazarene Church
Christian Women's Fellowship
May & Jana First National Bank
Nethors of America
Grange
Women's Missionary
Wilson Avenue Baptist Church
Sweet Adelines
Zion Lutheran Church
Boyd Burns
Mother-Daughter Tea by Guild at Grant Avenue Baptist
The Girls' Guild of the Grant Avenue Baptist Church held a Mother-Daughter Spring tea at 1:30 Sunday. Four new members were initiated by chairperson Mari lyn Tiegreen: Leah Eastburn Mitzi Beck Pam Horn and Vickie Walker. New officers and sponsors were installed by Mrs. Ben Nicholas with Miss Horn as chairman Miss Beck as vice chairman Janet Webber as scribe Miss Eastman as stewardship and Janice Haynes as historian. Refreshments served to 24.
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Girls’ Guild
Grant Avenue Baptist Church
Marilyn Tiegreen
Leah Eastburn
Mitzi Beck
Pam Horn
Vickie Walker
Ben Nicholas
Miss Horn
Miss Beck
Janet Webber
Miss Eastman
Janice Haynes
J. R. Hale
Ralph Toland
Jefferses Host Rehearsal Dinner After Wedding
Kenneth Jeffers and Deborah Barker were married at St. Patrick's Church Saturday. A rehearsal dinner Friday at the home of Mr. and Mrs. Marvin Jeffers featured a lace table, a large white bell, love birds and yellow streamers with guests including Rev. Vincent Brown and numerous Jeffers relatives and friends.
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Kenneth Jeffers
Deborah Barker
St. Patrick's Church
Marvin Jeffers
R. 3
Vincent Brown
Charlene Truster
Tom Arthur
Karol Jeffers
J. B. Baker
Ronnie Bruey
Jim Breiner
Gene Jerome
Donna Jerome
Karla Jeffers
John Haugsness
Jeffry
Sean
Craig
Lyda Jeffers
A. G. Endsley
Bill Busse
Gene Prickett
Retired Civil Workers Meet in St Paul
Local Chapter No 799 of the National Association of Retired Civil Employees held a Monday gathering in St Paul at the home of Mr and Mrs Ed McMains. Fifteen members and two guests shared a noon covered dish dinner. Burl O Connor and wife joined as new members as Lester Purdy led the business session. Plans were made for a picnic at Santa Fe Park on June 6 with prayers led by Chaplain Ed Wolfe.
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National Association of Retired Civil Employees
St. Paul
Ed McMains
Burl O'Connor
Lester Purdy
Santa Fe Park
Ed Wolfe
Home Demonstration Week Tea Hosted by HD Unit
Members of the Peace and Progress HD Unit hosted a guest tea during Home Demonstration Week. Mrs. Paul A. Taylor welcomed guests at Nora E. Ellison’s home, with Mrs. Joe H. Jackson presenting her poetry. Guests included Mrs. C. W. Greene and others.
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Peace and Progress HD
Paul A. Taylor
Nora E. Ellison
W. Walnut
Joe H. Jackson
Everett Faulkner
Falkner
Taylor
Ellison
Roy Wiles
Faulkner
C. E. Steinman
Mmes. C. W. Greene
Clifford Holman
F. §. Rexford
Jess Dent
Frank L. Haines
Marvin Fairchild
Ed Zastrow
F. N. Torgeson
John Mein
Fae Daughty
Fay Edwards
Nutmeg in Butterscotch Sauce For Ice Cream Flavor
A playful kitchen tip explores adding a pinch of nutmeg to a butterscotch sauce to drizzle over vanilla ice cream. The combination aims to enhance warmth and depth in a simple dessert twist.
Delores Webb Engaged to Donald West Fall
Mr and Mrs Kenneth Webb of 1501 Washington announce the engagement of their daughter Delores of Alton Illinois to Donald West Fall son of Mr and Mrs Ira West Fall of Brighton Illinois Miss Webb is a Chanute High School graduate attending junior college and employed as a secretary in Alton West Fall attended school in Brighton and works at McDowell Aircraft He has three years Army service The wedding is set for May 28 at the First Assembly of God Church East Alton Illinois
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Kenneth Webb
Washington
Delores
Alton
Ill
Donald West Fall
Ira West Fall
Brighton
Miss Webb
Chanute High School
West Fall
McDowell Aircraft
Assembly of God
East Alton
Reports From World War I Auxiliary Gather Members
New members receiving obligation at the Monday night World War I Auxiliary meeting at the Memorial Building included Mmes Harry Butman C E Steinman Lillian Wilson Grace Brinkler and Ruth Putman. Business was led by Mrs L M Markman and plans were made for the May department convention in Topeka.
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Memorial Building
Mmes
Harry Butman
C. E. Steinman
Lillian Wilson
Grace Brinkler
Ruth Putman
L. M. Markman
Department Council
Chanute
Department
Topeka
Hugo Larson
W. Main
William Cline
Ernest Crawford
Maxine Stall
Glenn Stall
Buffalo
S. D. Propst
Miss Stall
Hattie Gilpin
Woodward, Okla
Luke Lasley
Bridge Club Meets at Home Savings Association
Duplicate bridge was played at three tables Monday night in the lounge. Above average scores included Mrs. Kenneth Horton and Mrs. Charles Broadwell with 35 points, followed by Mrs. Jo Payne and Fred Foster 26, Mrs. Bob Allen and Larry Caldwell 26, and Mrs. Ralph Caldwell with Bob Allen 25.
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Home Savings Association
Kenneth Horton
Charles Broadwell
Jo Payne
Fred Foster
Bob Allen
Larry Caldwell
Ralph Caldwell
Thinking Out Loud Spring Blossoms In Chanute Area
Betty Dogwood notes spring displays of dogwood along with what readers report in Chanute and nearby towns. Mr and Mrs Raymond Pierpont show several fine pink and white specimens east of town. David Parker, former Chanute teacher, is ordained as Episcopal priest and to serve as deacon in Springfield, with others from Chanute attending the Kansas City ceremony.
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Missouri
Chanute
Raymond Pierpont
Williams
West Main
Showers Of Harmony Concert Delights Chanute Audience
The Chanute Chapter of Sweet Adelines Inc presented Showers Of Harmony at the Senior High auditorium. Guest quartets Aqua Tones from Lawrence and LeKans from Pittsburg impressed, with Sylvia Nahman as mistress of ceremonies and Mrs. Grace Knox as president.
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Senior High
Chanute
Sweet Adelines, Inc
Aqua Tones
Lawrence
Pittsburg
Sylvia Nahman
The
Scout News Den 2 Pack 3 Open Flag Salute At Murray Hill
Randy Bennett led the opening flag salute at Murray Hill School Monday afternoon. Den members named their pet ducks Lady Bird and Pres Johnson. Bobby Huffman shared a booklet about the president and White House, sent after a letter and photo of the ducks. Steven McMeekin served treats as games and planting of flower seeds occurred. Den mother Mrs. John McMeekin.
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Randy Bennett
Murray Hill School
Lady Bird
Pres. Johnson
Robert Arnold
Bobby Huffman
President
White House
Johnsons
Steven McMeekin
John McMeekin
Den 4 Pack 225 Scouts Visit Safari Museum
Monday afternoon the scouts gathered at Mrs. Lloyd Drybread Jr. home at 316 N. Washington. Mrs. Drybread Mrs. Wilson and Mrs. Anna Mattrix led a Safari museum tour and Den chief Claud Roberts led the pledge before returning home. The May theme Jungle Tales was discussed and a picture was taken.
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Den 4
Den
Lloyd Drybread Jr
N. Washington
Westerners entertain patients at Southeast Kansas Tuberculosis Hospital
About 30 patients enjoyed a 90 minute program in the auditorium with Dale Schiesser and His Westerners performing vocal and instrumental numbers. The brief items note local births, visits, and military training updates from Erie and surrounding areas.
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Southeast Kansas Tuberculosis Hospital
Dale Schiesser
Westerners
Ed Wolfe Elected President of Chanute Cycle Club
Ed Wolfe heads the Chanute Cycle Club after a Monday night vote at the North Malcolm Community Center. New officers include Richard Wells as vice president and Frances Wolfe as road captain with Gene Morris new member welcome. Races announced for Parsons May 8 and Winfield May 14 15.
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Ed Wolfe
Chanute Cycle Club
North Malcolm
Richard Wells
Robert Lausch
Don Findsley
Frances Wolfe
Lyle Swink
Gene Morris
Wells
Parsons
Winfield
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