Long distance love woes and a harsh breakup reply
Letters reveal two readers seeking guidance on distant relationships and a heartbreak. A woman notes monthly visits and growing unhappiness as a partner relocates for a new job. Cheryl Lavin counsels clearer boundaries and pace. another reader laments abuse after being dumped by email.
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Rural Lovers Find Each Other Across Distances
Amanda Szymanik of Chana Bul and Scott Harbaugh Jr of Ashland Ohio both grew up on farms and sought partners who share farming life. Experts note historical rural dating patterns limited by transportation and isolation as young farmers seek companions nearby.
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Scott Harbaugh Jr
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Paul Lasley
Iowa State University
Farmers Find Love Online Reaping Rural Romance
Postwar farm family decline pushes couples to online dating. Szymanik and Harbaugh met on FarmersOnly dot com and after emailing and meeting in person plan a grain and beef operation in Illinois. Rural users face access hurdles yet online dating helps reduce isolation.
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Illinois
Amanda
Miss Manners on Grammar Jokes and Gala Etiquette
Judith Martin recalls tedious remarks about English majors and teaching as well as the proper way to respond when one's name is announced for congratulations. Miss Manners advises a modest wave or small smile and thanks, avoiding rude reactions.
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