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Newspaper

Cedar Rapids Gazette

Location

Cedar Rapids, Iowa, United States of America

Date

Jun 15, 2001

Page

27

Dear Cheryl advice column fragments on relationships

A reader asks whether to reveal a fiancée’s past infidelity to her son and whether to break a promise to her daughter. Cheryl Lavin urges honesty with the son about what he is getting into and facing inevitable anger, while advising the other reader to end a long-term affair and move on.

Cheryl Hhaern Munhlaw Leve Plaviolus

Pooch won't care if you don't pet it

Judith Martin answers a reader who fears pet allergies and feels obliged to pet animals in others' homes. She explains it is not rude to decline contact and offers tactful ways to handle allergy concerns without hurting the host.

Miss Manners on Pet Etiquette and Allergies

The column advises polite ways to avoid unwanted petting and handling at social events. If a host’s dog or an infant is insistent, say you are allergic or uncomfortable and admire from afar. For dogs that beg at table, excuse yourself with a brief, courteous explanation to maintain decorum.

Friendship Ties Shape Female Bond Across Lifespans

Leslie Garcia reports on how friendship evolves with life stages, based on over 200 interviews. Experts note specialized friends for different needs, from gossip to practical support, with typical close circles of four to seven and changeable dynamics after crises.

Leslie Garcia Knight Ridder Sandy Sheehy Sheehy William Morrow Galveston Texas Robert Milardo University of Maine Journal of Marriage and Family Milardo

Types of female friendships described in a social guide

The piece outlines categories from Soulmates and Lifemates to Crisis friendship and Mentor protege. It lists 33 categories including Workmate playmate Attractive opposites Nurturer nurtured History friends Ensemble friends Allies and more with examples and context from Sandy Sheehy's Connecting The Enduring Power of Female Friendship.

Ensemble Friends PTA Sandy Sheehy

AAA approach to marriage improves bond

Jeff Herring presents the AAA method Apologize Appreciate Anticipate to reduce complaints and criticism. He outlines past present and future focus with practical steps including sincere apologies, listing appreciated qualities, and planning positive future events. The piece notes Herring is a licensed marriage and family therapist.

Jeff Herring

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