Dear Cheryl advice column fragments on relationships
A reader asks whether to reveal a fiancée’s past infidelity to her son and whether to break a promise to her daughter. Cheryl Lavin urges honesty with the son about what he is getting into and facing inevitable anger, while advising the other reader to end a long-term affair and move on.
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Pooch won't care if you don't pet it
Judith Martin answers a reader who fears pet allergies and feels obliged to pet animals in others' homes. She explains it is not rude to decline contact and offers tactful ways to handle allergy concerns without hurting the host.
Miss Manners on Pet Etiquette and Allergies
The column advises polite ways to avoid unwanted petting and handling at social events. If a host’s dog or an infant is insistent, say you are allergic or uncomfortable and admire from afar. For dogs that beg at table, excuse yourself with a brief, courteous explanation to maintain decorum.
Friendship Ties Shape Female Bond Across Lifespans
Leslie Garcia reports on how friendship evolves with life stages, based on over 200 interviews. Experts note specialized friends for different needs, from gossip to practical support, with typical close circles of four to seven and changeable dynamics after crises.
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Leslie Garcia
Knight Ridder
Sandy Sheehy
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William Morrow
Galveston
Texas
Robert Milardo
University of Maine
Journal of Marriage and Family
Milardo
Types of female friendships described in a social guide
The piece outlines categories from Soulmates and Lifemates to Crisis friendship and Mentor protege. It lists 33 categories including Workmate playmate Attractive opposites Nurturer nurtured History friends Ensemble friends Allies and more with examples and context from Sandy Sheehy's Connecting The Enduring Power of Female Friendship.
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Ensemble Friends
PTA
Sandy Sheehy
AAA approach to marriage improves bond
Jeff Herring presents the AAA method Apologize Appreciate Anticipate to reduce complaints and criticism. He outlines past present and future focus with practical steps including sincere apologies, listing appreciated qualities, and planning positive future events. The piece notes Herring is a licensed marriage and family therapist.
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