Intimacy and straight talk for lasting relationships
A psychologist outlines ten facets of intimacy beyond sex and offers practical guidance on honest communication. He defines intimacy as trust sharing vulnerability and mental and physical closeness, and explains how straight talk replaces passive language to strengthen bonds. Excerpt from Making Love Work by Zev Wanderer and Erika Fabian.
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Zev Wanderer
Erika Fabian
Dr. Zev Wanderer
Enka Fabian
GP Putnam's Sons and Field Newspaper Syndicate
Making Love Work Authors Share Relationship Insights
Dr Zev Wanderer a UCLA psychology professor and behavior therapist and Erika Fabian a playwright discuss a practical approach to sustaining relationships in their book Making Love Work. Wanderer cites thousands of observed breakdowns while Fabian draws on playwriting and TV work to analyze human dynamics.
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Zev Wanderer
Erika Fabian
University of California At Los Angeles
UCLA
Columbia University
American Board of Professional Psychology
Santa Monica
Calif
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Prime Time Test for Couples by Wanderer and Fabian
A simple scoring quiz helps couples gauge shared attention after living together. Read ten questions on dates, shows, dancing, talks, gifts, and personal goals. A score under 15 suggests relationship Prime Time needs improvement unless illness or other issues apply.
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Zev Wanderer
Erika Fabian
Dear Genie readers seek Iowa ties and genealogical clues
A reader requests help locating information about Charles Paustian and his family from Davenport and Tama County Iowa, plus notes on Charles VanCleve and Fannie Fisher, Rosenstiel descendants, and Felix Ryan lineages. Correspondence to readers in Iowa and Oregon addresses is requested for genealogical outreach.
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Linn County Heritage Society
Iowa
P.O
Cedar Rapids
Gazette
Joachim Paustian
Katherine Steffen
Germany
Davenport
Charles
Walcott
Wilhelmina Adrian
Tama County
Milo Paustian
Box
Tracr
Charles Henry VanCleve
Chicago
Fannie Fisher
Humeston
Vernon
Jerry
Ronnie
Joe
Helen
Jane
Odessa
Shirley
Phoebe
Mary
Rosenstiel Brothers
Charles and
Lewis
Buchanan
Fayette
Clarence A. Wood
N. 13Th St
Marshalltown
Felix Ryan
West Virginia
Mahaska County
Leah Frush Ryan
Karen Blodgett
E. St
Newberg
Oregon
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