Dear Abby column on engagement and hostless party confusion
A reader asks how to end an engagement started by a casual dating choice and fears hurting the soon-to-be fiancee. Abby replies the man is not trapped if he acts, and advises clear communication about not being ready for marriage. A second note questions guests paying at a no host event, with Abby clarifying that no host means guests pay.
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Understanding arteriosclerosis and atherosclerosis
Dear Becky, arteriosclerosis is general hardening of arterial walls, while atherosclerosis is a specific form with fatty deposits that can block arteries and cause heart attacks. Risk factors include fat, weight, inactivity, smoking, high blood pressure, and stress.
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Safe investments vs stocks and bonds in retirement planning
A reader asks about balancing safety and growth in savings. The adviser notes all current holdings including banks, E bonds, and an annuity are investment, while arguing there is no truly safe investment. He discusses risk, window dressing by funds, and emphasizes choosing an appropriate risk level.
Four Spades Bid and Defense Sparks Bridge Debate
North doubles for takeout and again as a general penalty. South bids four spades aiming for a vulnerable game. West opens hearts. dummy ruffs, trumps, and clubs drive the contest. A rare defense could beat four spades if West’s singleton club is exposed and East capitalizes with precise ruffs and leads.
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