Overanalyzing harms relationships and happiness
Judi Hopson Emma Hopson and Ted Hagen discuss how excessive analysis of others drains energy and harms closeness. Psychologists urge setting limits to avoid relationship paralysis while promoting focus on personal goals and healthier interactions.
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Selfish boyfriend’s gifts spark a fairness clash
A reader asks how to handle a boyfriend who buys expensive sports themed gifts despite her aversion to sports. Cheryl Lavin advises that his behavior is selfish and inconsiderate, urges a serious talk about fairness, and notes breakup as a possible option if he won’t listen.
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Miss Manners on office etiquette and napkin names
Judith Martin advises polite handling of wandering coworkers with wireless headsets and suggests a bulletin board notice to curb disruption. For 50th anniversary napkins she proposes using full names to avoid confusion, or at least his full name alongside hers.
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