THE EVENING STAR, Washington, D. C.* * BTHURSDAY. OCTOBER 11. 10MEmily Post Advises—Don Fugitt Photo.MISS ELIZABETH J. MESS.Engaged to Mr. Wesley R. Wilken.Dr. and Mrs. Henry F. Mess of Silver Spring announce the engagement of their daughter. Elizabeth Joanne, to Mr. Wesley R. Wilken, son of Mr. and Mrs. Frederick W. Wilken of Chevy Chase.The bride elect is a graduate of the Academy of the Holy Names in Silver Spring, and attended Montgomery Junior College. Mr. Wilken is a graduate of Devitt Preparatory School and also attended Montgomery Junior College.A spring wedding is planned.1 1A letter today says: “I mar-;said “doubtful”). Saying this m ried into a kissing family. Every be harmful to the sale of the time any of them get together which are truly beautiful. I a every one makes the rounds kiss- mit there are some that are r ing every one else. I have never beautiful, far from it. but been used to this and find myself class them all in this categc embarrassed. Also. I dislike it is most unfair. Won't you chan personally and don’t think it’s your mind? a good idea to bring up my chil- Answer: I cannot rememt dren to kiss a roomful of people, ever having criticized artiflc relatives or not. Should an in-lawi flowers under any circumstanc be expected to conform to such In fact, their usefulness is almi a family custom? How can I get unlimited.»ut0' Boy Helps Girl!„c=ep, . curtly,Thonk-You Important I know this would be properDear Mrs. Post:' I'm wondering I were older, but does the k if I’m -quaint” for expecting t^ink lt is^pioper when we i some written acknowledgment and thl;s young- . . ..thanks for a wedding present. Answer: M h« makes the mi Most of these young relatives and t0 °Pen d°°r, then, of coui friends say thanks verbally, and wait 10 let him; if he doesi in no great hurry, and that’s all °Pen lt yourself, the recognition given to my gift| or me until time comes around, for the first baby shower.Answer: A verbal thanks sincerely given is all that is necessary.Artificial FlowersDear Mrs. Post: Some time agoShould a lady offer her har when greeting friends, or bei\ introduced? Mrs. Post is sor she cannot answer person mail. However, her leafli E-17, “Introductions” answe these questions fully. To obta a copy, send 10 cents in coinimii cntrl . thnf flAitrorc