DEAR READERS: TIRED IN LINCOLN, NEB., wrote: At age 50, after 30 years of marriage, I would like to forget about sex altogether. Believe me, I’ve paid my dues. I suspect that many (if not most) women get very little physical satisfaction out of sex, they just go through the motions because they want to do something for the men they love I can’t believe I’m the only woman who feels this way. Please poll your readers, Ab by, and if they're honest, I think you’ll find I’m right.”Well, here’s an update on my survey, and there are literally bushel baskets of mail that are yet to be tabulated:TOTAL RESPONSES TO DATE106,448.Agreed with TIRED: 61,055. Disagreed: 45,393.