DEAR ABBY: I just read in your column that a lady was told by a friend that giving wedding gifts was “old-fashioned ” She said today they just pass a tray around and the guests deposit money—starting with $10.If money is all that important, why don’t they book the wedding at a wrestling match? A few years back, when I was a professional wrestler, they had an occasional wedding at the wrestling matches lit was usually one of the wrestlers who got married.) But since a wedding is usually the beginning of a fight, they might be able to find a promoter who would book it.REV. LLOYD F. TEASLEY, CROFTON, KY.