Ruth M. CrossRuth M. Gross, nee Lowry, a resident of 930 S. Beverly Ln., Arlington Heights, for the last 16 years died yesterday morning in Northwest Community Hospital, Arlington Heights.Visitation is today from 7 to 10 p.m. inLauterburg and Oehler Funeral Home, 2000 E. Northwest Hwy., Arlington Heights, and tomorrow from 2 to 5 p.m. and from 7 to 10 p.m.Funeral Mass will be said at 10 a.m. Thursday in Our Lady of the Wayside Catholic Church, 432 S. Mitchell Ave., Arlington Heights. Burial will be in St. Joseph Cemetery, River Grove.Surviving are her husband, Harold W ; sons, Donald J. of Arlington Heights and Harold J. of Dallas, Tex.; daughter, Mrs. Theresa Ann Horne of Arlington Heights; eight grandchildren; three great-grandchildren; a brother, Joseph R. Lowry of Chicago and a sister, Mrs. Edna E. Crou-chet of Louisiana.