THE WEEK!A MorabI© Feast.SHE.Now Harry, I wish yoiTd behavej A lass 'heath-the mistletoe ’s fair; Bat, now, disregarding the limits It gave,■ Miss Lockwood, white albatroBS and pink China silk.Miss Stimpson, cream faille, cream ribbons.Mrs. N. C. Stevens, black H« arietta and Persian embroidery suiting.Minn Edwards, black silk visiting costnme.[iss Gillette, mode Henrietta, emYou’re kissing me everywhereBE.The mistletoe’s rule Is so old.To break it I never should dare;And, dear, if you’ll notice, ere I was so bold,I slipped a wee twig In your hair!is in Puck.—C. F. LuMMIThe average man has never seemed to object to a woman's working as much as she pleases in any line he has first pointed out to her; but there are men who complain that women are becoming altogether too independent. A well known, gentleman of this cityremarked the other day that highlyeducated women care less about marriage than their less cnltnred and apparently, in his opinion, more womanly sisters. He says women should wish to marry—therefore, they should not be educated. Does education so change a woman’s nature that she no longer finds marriage a desirable thing? Impossible. A woman is still a woman, whether educated or ignorant. As long as the world lasts, andhuman nature prevails, a woman will fall in love and marry when the right man comes. It is not marriage that the educated woman objects to; but the usual conditions of marriage.It is true that the intelligent, independent woman will not marry— merely for the sake of being married —any man that happens to ask her. And she is not likely to marry a man she does not love for the sake of a home, when she knows she can earn a still more comfortable home by her own independent efforts. Few wives are allowed to have anything to say about the spending of the income. One can hardly blame a talented and cultivated woman for hesitating before giving up a pleasant profession and assured income, to take a position involving harder work, greater responsibilities, and many trials, where she is supposed never to earn a dollar, and seldom has one to spend.♦ * ♦broidery, mode gloves.Miss Kimball, black diagonal, goldcord trimmings.Mrs. Culbertson, black Armure and velvet corsage, boquet of cut flowers.Miss Ropes, black dotted tulle over black silk.Mrs. Stimpson, black silk, ruchings at neck and sleeves.Miss Morris, pearl gray silk and black velvet, gray gloves.Mrs. Hogg, serpent green Henrietta with gold embroidery.Miss Arter, coachman’s brown suit, brown gloves.Mrs. March, black silk and velvet black undressed kid gloves.Only the relatives and intimate friends of the family were present, asfollows: Mr. and Mrs. Geo. March, Chas. Grovenor, F. M. Benedict, Walter . Howe, rrofessor Stimpson, E. W. Hamilton, Rev. Dr. Marvin, J. S. Perry, W. M. Culbertson, C. W. Edwards, Prof. WillistoUjG. L. Howe, Mrs. Kimbalf: Mrs. O’Brian; Misses Alice Ropes of Topeka, Nellie Morris, Virginia Edwards, Laura Lockwood^ * _ * * a •.. a tr t i1iJi8on; Agnes McConnell,Lamie Stamps Cora Kimbalk Lillian Wiggs, Jessie Arter, Laura O’Brian, Jennie Gillette;Messrs. John KHworth, Ed Perry,Warwick Benedict and Clifford Howe.Ladies’ journals have a great deal of advice to young ladies concerning rules of behavior for their sex but seem to think etiquette ought to be all on the young woman’s side. Either they imagine young men know all about how to act in company or that ’tis unnecessary they should know. For every word of advice to young men there are a thousand to girls, and yet taking everything into consideration more young men in society need a few suggestions than the average society girl who intuitively knows just what is the correct thing to say and do. under all circumstances. Ask a girl what is her ideal of an escort, and she will tell you that it is he who takes her to the dance and provides for her entertainment before seeking his own. He does not seat her along the chairs against the wall and leave her to get her program filled and be introduced to the company as best she may. He does not let her forget the pleasure she has bestowed on him by* consenting to allow him to be her escort.A Cobweb Party.Last evening Miss Mamie Stimpson gave a Cobweb party to about thirty of her friends at ner home on Tennessee street.The unique and original invitations were designed by Mr. Ed. Stimpson, each corner of the web representing a spider-web with a large spider in the centre enticing a poor little fly into his web. As the cobweb party is new in Lawrence it would perhaps bewell to describe it to those not in-*itiated into the mysteries. A mostintricate web was formed in the dining-room by a wicked spider and each strand forming the web passed into the hands of the guests. Each guest was required to follow his string and extricate it from the much-entangled web, the confusion causing much labor and merriment. Unbounded surprise greeted each happy “fly” as he came to the end of his strand and found some cleverly concealed prize awaiting him. The favors were very handsome, and consisted of horrid spiders,bonbon boxes, fans, scarf-pins, etc., each person being particularly fortunate in attaining an appropriate present.A delightful luncheon was served at 11 o’clock, and at midnight after music and games the guests took leave of their hostess with many assurances of the pleasures they had experienced.lt;lt;iIlt;11tII£tazatrtii a c » t odacctie:Pclt;Ttltlelt;A H!gSi Noon Wedding.Last Thursday the elegant residence of Mr. and Mrs. G. L. Howe, 829 Mississippi street, was the scene of a joyous wedding, the occasion being the marriage of their daughter Eva to Mr. Herbert F. Benedict, of Omaha, Neb.The handsome reception rooms were tastefully decorated with smilax and evergreens. .Original paintings of the bride which give evidence of unusual talent in so young an artist, adorned the wails and were of especial interest to the assembled guests.The dining room was in blue and with the large bay window filled with blooming plants made a delightful picture in contrast with the snow and gloom without. Pale blue was theMrx. J. K. HempHtir^LunchiMiii.Mrs. J. K. Hemphill entertained about forty of her lady friends at an elegant luncheon Wednesday after-, noon at her pleasant home on Kentucky street. Luncheon, at which every delicacy of the season was daintily prepared, was served at 2o’clock.The hostess presided with her customary graceful manner, making the occasion one of special delight to those fortunate in being present, who were: Mesdames ft. W. Sparr, C. W. Sparr, J. N. Roberts, Capt. Goodrich, Geo. Banks, Prof. Sayre, Prof. Dyche, Snyder, Grosvenor, Byron Power,Eva Hull, Jevett, Coberly, Hadley, Sophia* Grubb, Buckingham, B. W. Woodward. J. G, Haskef, Crum Johnson, Litteil, Geo. Dick, Prof. Murphy, R.D. Manley, Dr. Russ, H. W. Hayne, Prof. Blackmar, Prof. Bailey, Prof. Stevens, Jas. Kenyon, Hazen, J. S. Crew and Miss Odell.Flower Keeeplion.The M. M. club entertained last Tuesday evening by giving a ‘-Flower reception” to their friends at Odd Fellows’ hall. The evening was passed with games and music. Luncheon was served about half-past 10. Those present were: Misses M. R. Johnson, C. Hovt, T. Merritt, B. Cline, M. Johnson, L, Merritt, E. Jones, E. Dimery, N. and M. Hines, L. Ruby, G. Merritt, J. Hines, F.cswtalaaifosrwhibiMthtrlt;betothWiehpi;soprevailing color at the table where ; i athe bridal n-irtv sat Out nrwl * Crouch, L. \\ oouru.f, t. ^.angston, I .uie oziaai party sat. cutlowers and, Davis? L# Alexander, S. Strode, S.tiithcoW (ofinlt;agUr00(§5milag00(po1,0copaantaleqiterambo:00CWith the beautiful ring-ceremony the Rev. Dr. Marvin in an impressive manner pronounced the words which united the happy couple in holy wedlock.After the congratulations of the assembled company all were seated at an elegant collation served in many courses.The bride was unusually handsome in a traveling dress of heliotrope Henrietta wit ft' garnitures of uncut velvet of pansy shades of heliotrope and golden-brown, pink tea roses and golden-brown suede glo :es of the shade of the velvet completed a simple and elegant costume.The groom was attired in the cus- ; tomary black. ;At 4 o’olock Mr. and Mrs. Benedict j departed for the east amid showersMorrison, I. Silvers, Co-eland, W. Gray— * a.1 larvcy, Anderson, Clark, W. Wo.airud,Harvev, J. % *Johnson. S.#Hines, J. r Fuel.* « 1?;* ti.wun giwn Weu-A X*-\v Vi*;:A Now Year's ball nesday eyt.*ni? g ::i the I. n. 1). F. hall »y the Scandinavian young men la watch the old year- out and the new vearin.Dancing, an ster supper and New Years greetings were the main features of the evening's entertainment. Fifty couples participated in the dance to the sweet strains of the Bonner Springs orchestra until a very late hour. Guests from Kansas City and Topeka were in attendance at the ball.jtatmi:thecai(Miit fno!WiSeitintrilt;lllememuCMtint io;to :en\binAereA Healthy Year.of rice and old shoos. Die bride I Thet 8UPlnte“dent of Oak Hill. ILIIf f i cemetery, Mr. McFarland, has pre-« , in bothgrams, among the former being a solid! Y' the Pastsilver water nirnhpe nil fS 1 hve years. The figures shov- a re-of Mrs. Benedict’s i?If ■ markably healthy condition for thewas the'r i cemetery, Mr. McFarland, j’was the recipient of many elegant | Dared a record of the hurinUpresents and congratulatory tele- i P If . reco.a oi tne burialsffMms i . k cemeteries of the citv for \Gamma sisters, who werHssembled !city and ’ especiail-v during the pastin a b^v to witness £ 'ear* The total number of intermentsITwitness the marriage of fnr thA n«at. fiv* «ntheir most popular member.Mrs. Geo. L. Howe was becomingly dressed in black silk with over dress of black silk tulle, diamond ornaments.-- Mrs.lL S. Perry,a life-long friend of ttie family, gracefully assisted the hostess in receiving in a black peau de sole, velvet sleeves, boquet ofgeraniums and roses.Mrs. Walter Howe, black silk and ^velvet with vest of orange silk.. Mrs. F. M. Benedict, dahlia Armure sQk^ ent steel embroidery.for the past five years in both cemeteries has been Oak Hill, 731; Maple Grove, 258. The year 1890 shows the least interments in both cemeteries of any year during the five. There were 115 in Oak Hill and 37 in Maple Grove. The number in Oak Hill is 28 less thanfor any previous year during the five.pithealtny year.In spite of La Grippe 1890 was aWill-old-rose China silk encollar, diamonds.satin de* . *it.Everybody who has visited Bismarck Grove in the past ten years cannot but notice the concrete house to the north of the railroad track near the gate entrance. The building was t up by a native of Sweden and Swedish architecture. The' .’jIS«day! opsy.FillPyilis lt;StriAraThe Mai TheDea Hoifed iOncei in ten yearsT ice of a has tenfcy-ihist plac aist whe an cfortwortakihon%vrrx;t-tfr