His wife took their two small children to visit relatives in a home so crowded that the children had to sleep in the haymow of a barn, Dwight Neumiller charges In answer and cross petition filed Tuesday to the divorce suit of Nina D. Neumil-lcr. He denies her charges and alleges she has been guilty of neglect. Wendell Herbruck is his attorney.Minnie Rudy, Massillon, has filed suit for divorce from Andrew Rudy charging cruelty. Milton B. Haines is her attorney.