In Tie for CoupleCASTRO VALLEY— A race to the courthouse in Oakland to terminate their marriage ended in a phofo finish yesterday for Mr. and Mrs. Richard E. Dem-Car Wash Suit FiledSAN LEANDRO — A *435,000 damage suit filed yesterday by ats San Francisco man, Manuel Delis.’sa]bsftdtoislyin a dispute over the purchase and lease of a car wash business at 16211 E- 14th St. San l.candro.Delis claims tie had a deal with Eho-Madre Inc.. to buy the business for 565,0X1. Ho also had a deal, Delis claims, with Phillip S. Simon, 46, of 153 Knoll Way, Hayward, to lease the business to Simon and a partner for 51000 a month.Delis claims Eho-Madre Corporation olllcers subsequently cut him • off . . * repudiated their deal with hfm and themselves signed the $1000 a month lease with the Simon partnership.Delis has sued both the corporation and the. Simon partnershipn: asking damages fron whoever the2pcrycourt finds at fault. He is asking for $183,000 actual and 5230000 for $183,000 actual and $230,000exemplary damages.ing, 2308 Vegas Ave., Castro Valley.At 9:59 a.m. Mrs. Audrey Lee Deming. 3a. LLcd a suit to divorce her husband. Richard, 34, charging extreme cruelly. Thirteenj minutes later her husband filed his suit 1o divorce her on the same grounds.Each got a temporary retraining order, signed by Judge William J. McGinnis, to prevent them from molesting doc another.Mrs. Doming charged Deming once lore the telephone off the wall and hurled it at her. He charged she threatened him with a knife.Deming is also asking in a second count for an annulment, on grounds she hadn't received a final divorce decree from a former marriage wiien they were married in Reno on Dec. 2, 1943.Both are asking custody of fheir three children: Donna, 10, Deborah. 5, and Mark, 4. Both are asking all the community property, the house and a car. She claims another car is herseparate properly. She 3s also asking alimony and child support.Mrs. Deming, a waitress. Is represented by Ally. G. Ernest Lopez of San Leandro. Deming, a melal awning salesman, is represented by the Hayward law firm of Dunivan and Nye, .Imebel1thene*tioSOI7.0COtritfvvoRlt;wiarJfirelhP'fcO'aitchc-