WARD AND BLANCHE DUDLEY drove down from Kansas City to visit brother Walter Dudley and his Carolyn . . . They arrived Sunday in time to help Walter celebrate his birthday Monday . . . Carolyn invited all the neighbors in for coffee and birthday cake . . . Note: The Dudleys have a brand new solar-heated pool which they wanted Ward and Blanche to try . . . but the weather hasn’t exactly cooperated . . .THE NEWCOMERS FASHION LUNCHEON at the hotel was a smash ... 170 members turned up . . . Don Gealchet really staged a great show . . . including some fascinating hair fashions . . . and a lot of the gals modeled the lingerie . . . swim suits and sleep wear. . .