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Lethbridge Herald (Newspaper) - October 23, 1971, Lethbridge, Alberta For The Record By MARILYN ANDERSON Family Editor A RE - OCCURRING question from many women this week has been "how do we undertake a study of the status of women in Canada report.' And rightly they should ask, because judging by the turnouts at the several meetings I've attended in the past year, a new approach is needed. ( Apathy has been cited as a reason for poor turnouts to first of all acquaint women with the report. I'd like to think intelligence was there, too, since anyone in his or her right mind knows that you cannot take a two-inch thick book to study and even make a dint in it in one night. Telling women at these kinds of meetings what is in the report becomes a skimmer session, and since many of the areas of involvement in the report are so unfamiliar to so many of the women, the telling becomes unsatisfactory for both the speaker and audience. The only group who has made a co-ordinated effort throughout the province to familiarize women with the report has been the Women of Unifarm, who is sponsoring a total of 28 information meetings. These meetings began Oct. 19 and will continue until next Thursday. At the meeting, copies of the recommendations (in brief) are distributed free of charge. This, in itself, is probably the most beneficial part of the whole program since it gives women (if they will) an opportunity to read and digest at least some of it. Once copies of the report become more widely available and read, the situation will be helped greatly. -And perhaps a little pressure on the Queen's Printer in Ottawa wouldn't hurt. Having sat in on a number of these meetings by various groups, two points need special emphasis. One is that if too many of these meetings are held without any satisfactory follow-up, the repetitious nature of them will turn off even the most interested followers. The report is just too big a project to tackle all at once. It needs breaking down to the size of one's human endurance and ability to assimilate in one evening, or one series of evenings. The report has been categorized into several areas of education, employment, economy, etc. It would be easy to examine each topic individually. Which leads me to the second point. It seems that the questioning at meetings comes because one person is interested in one topic, e.g. citizenship, credit, education. Why not avoid study groups per organization and have study groups per area of interest? Plan a meeting not to study the report (status is after all a rather nebulous term) but to study for example women in the labor force. Then when you have a group which is especially interested in this area, let them go at it, complete with local implications. This is especially important. The report includes all of Canada, and many regulations which apply in one province do not apply to another. I've heard lecturers declare a provincial regulation as discriminatory, and express need for its change, but fail to mention that there is no need to get all steamed up about it in Alberta since it doesn't apply here, and the recommended change is in effect. The report also becomes more meaningful when you can see its application. That's why your children go on field trips in school, to see in action what they learn in print. If a recommendation doesn't apply here let someone else in Canada worry about it, once you know about it and can rest assured it's in action. One important recommendation to the native women of Canada concerned their loss of treaty rights when they married a non-native. This has now been changed (the announcement was made this week) after a hard-fought case elsewhere in Canada. I heard this recommendation explained to non-native women as being necessary so that when the white man ditched his Indian wife, she could go back to the reserve and have her land and small amount of money. It sounded quite different when I heard a treaty woman speak in favor of the recommendation. She didn't expect to be ditched. She just wanted to feel like an Indian, and to her losing her treaty rights took away her heritage. It was that simple. A status seminar in Calgary supported this recommendation with a telegram to Ottawa. How much effect it had will probably never be known, but it was action, and the voices of 110 women were heard. ? * ? Once the stone is thrown and the ripples begin to spread it could be an interesting year for women. They'll likely leam a lot about themselves, and find they're not so hard to like after all. GOLDEN GLITTER - The annual police ball was held Special guests at the ball were police officers from the Friday in the Exhibition Pavilion with splendor of ball U.S. who were in the city to attend the International Law gowns and glitter of police uniforms stealing the spotlight. Enforcemeirt Co-Ordination Conference. Following the receiving line at 9 p.m. over 500 the twnes of the Big Band. patrons danced to and out L Each child an individual stress personal achievement HELP US TO HELP OTHERS! The Salvation Army Welfare Services Needs Clothing, Furniture, Toys, Household Effects CALL 328-2860 FOR PICKUP SERVICE OR LEAVE AT 412 Itt AVE. S. By MAUREEN JAMIESON Staff Writer Each child in a family has to achieve competence in a different way so he does not have to compete, and it is the responsibility of parents to find this way, according to Tony Miller. Dr. Miller and Professor George Mann of the University of Lethbridge faculty are leaders of the informal family workshop sponsored by the Canadian Mental Health Association and the U of L. Dr. Miller said parents should be responsive to the particular needs of each child, and if the youngster who badly wants an electric train happens to be a girl, why not give it to her? What is important, said Professor Mann, is what is meaningful to the individual. A child may actually be good in some field, but because he doesn't feel he is good enough, he defines himself as a failure. This creates a real problem. "Engineer situat ions where kids can be different," Dr. Miller said, and "hope they'll pick up something which they feel is uniquely their own." "We ask our kids to be honest with us today, and they are," said Dr. Miller. "We must be matter - of - fact and accept this." He said in his opinion "90 per cent of adolescents are at least experimenting with marijuana and hash, exactly the same as 90 per cent of the people our age experimented with booze." n is B 0 B IS B II B PERSIAN RUGS Every 10 years world famous H.A.M. one of the largest Carpet exporters to foreign countries has the largest Persian and Oriental Carpet showings in different parts of the world. This year this surprising exhibition Is going to take place In Canada. As a result their merchandise can be taken at the lowest possible price. EL RANCHO MOTOR HOTEL - General Grant Room Thur. and Fri., October 28 and 29 from 70 a.m. to 10 p.m. This collection has been carefully selected from 30 branches in Iran. Included are some fine pieces of 100% natural pure silk, as well as some very rare and valuable wool pieces. Choose a rug for your Living Room, Dining Room, Bedroom and Hallway from a collection of over 250 pieces, size from 1 x 1 to 20x12. All items to be sold at PERSIAN MARKET WHOLESALE PRICE (Plus a small shipping and handling charge) that they nori!r\�Wh&, ,hou,d"'t d?eora,"� Vow home with Persian Carpets are HfelasZ LTJm* �T ^ �,!� dL,p0,,f an, Inve8fme"t *�' you. Besides, the, are life-lastlng quality ,made of pure sheep wool, never wear out or change color uont miss this opportunity. A Catalogue will be available at viewing Terms Available  No Interest * Out of Town Call Collect * Lie. 1434 B 9 0 SI fi B � 9 He said that whether or not we approve, we have to accept the fact the young are taking drugs, and that it is good that they tell us. Questioned about the nonconformist with long hair and patched jeans, Dr. Miller replied: "he is conforming; wearing more of a uniform than we ever do and more of a uniform than he ever will again." He emphasized that he considered this a most insignificant thing to judge a person by, adding that leading couturiers were now copying the youth fashions of "the Pepsi generation." "It is a fact," said Dr. Miller, "that teenagers have learned from us to identify with particular age groups and be intolerant of other age groups." "We have to accept the fact that there are other people in society than adults." There appears to be growing evidence of change in the relationships between children and parents, and children and peer groups, said Professor Mann, with children leaning more to peer groups in loyalty and confidence. One of the more significant aspects of teen behavior, said Dr. Miller, is a different set of values. "If this is me, why can't I be this way?" Dr. Miller said he was "firmly convinced there is no more sexual hankypanky than 20 or even 50 years ago." They talk about it more, he said, but that doesn't mean they are more active. He claimed they are better equipped to handle the emotional business. A kid of today "will talk about what it is like to be you and what it is like to be me, instead of grope, grope, grope," he explained. On the differences between permissiveness and authoritarianism, Dr. Miller said "we tend to follow a method, usually what's currently fashionable, and we let the method get between us and the kids. This makes a phony relationship." He said we should "let the kids know we are human; that we do nasty things to each otri-er, but we still like each other." A young person always wants to know parents are concerned about him," said Professor Mann. "It's not a matter of permissive n e s s or authoritarianism. They want to be reassured that you are concerned with them, even though they don't show it." There is a difference between permissiveness and freedom with responsibility, Professor Mann continued. "Some children see our permissiveness as neglect." The final workshop session will be held at 7 p.m. Thursday at the U of L west campus. The annual tea and sale of work sponsored by the Ladies Auxiliary to the Rehabilitation Centre for the Handicapped will be held on Thursday, Nov. 4, from 2-5 p.m. at the Centre, 1261 2nd. Ave. A N. Mr. Roland Snowdon, past president of the board of directors will officially open the tea and guests will be welcomed by Mrs. G. C. Gardner, instructor-supervisor of the centre and Mrs. P. Hamilton, president of the auxiliary. Mrs. Gordon Reid will have charge of the work tables and many articles made by the handicapped workers will be for hsale. Mrs. James E. Jones will convene the pantry table. The Ladies Auxiliary to the Fraternal Order of Eagles will have charge of kitchen duties and will provide sweets as well as serving. Everyone welcome. Ladies Auxiliary of the I Army, Navy and Airforce will | hold its annual fall tea and I bake sale Wednesday Nov. 3 i at 2:30 p.m. in the club with president Mrs. George Martin receiving guests zi the door. The pouring honors will be shared by past presidents Mrs. George Rowntree and Mrs. Richard Burnharm. own Conveners will be Mrs. Frank Miller and Mrs. I. K. McNeely who will be assisted by the Mes-dames L. Church, A. Cusyk, B. Moscovitoh, R. Younger, M. Gajdoftik, W. McKnight, A. Mo-vald, D. Berglund, and W. Hill. Mrs. Sid Slater will be in charge of baking and sewing, and Mrs. Bernice Schweitzer in charge of tickets and raffle sales. F.O.E. BINGO TONIGHT EAGLES HALL 6th Ave. A and 13th St. N. Every Saturday Night at 8 p.m. S Cards for l.OO or 250 Each Twelve 7 Number Games JACKPOT $160 Free Games and Free Cards DOOR PRIZE Gold cards pay double money Children under 16 not allowed $ CASH BINGO $ TONIGHT, SATURDAY - 8 O'CLOCK HUNGARIAN OLD TIMERS HALL A $100 Blackout Bingo played for till won every Saturday plus 2 "-Number Jackpofs JACKPOTS NOW $90 AND $80 5 Cards for $1.00 or 25c each (Located Next to No. 1 Fireholl) $ $ TONI (Mitchell) MUELLER JOSEPH VANDEN DUNGAN and WANDA HOVEY are pleased to announce TONI (Mitchell) MUELLER has joined their staff at STYLE-RITE BEAUTY SALON 1514 9th Avenue South JUDY (Skiba) VAN RYN and YVONNE NEILSEN also on staff for appointment call 327-5000 PUBLIC BINGO 16 GAMES $500 JACKPOT LETHBRIDGE ELKS LODGE ROOM (Upstairs) EVERY THURS-8 p.m. Secomea U BfMMIM NOW YOU ARE FINISHED SCHOOL And Desire too Learn a Profession . . . WHY NOT BECOME A HAIRDRESSER We have 3 fully qualified full time instruc-treses and we teach all phases of beauty culture, hair styling and cutting, bleaching, tinting and permanent waving. You'll enjoy our new remodelled and air-conditioned school. A professional beautician pays higher than the average income and opportunities are unlimited. , Fill Out J" A,berto Beau,tf Sehoo� low MonthIv Thi, coupon I405 5th � lethbridge | ^tSEt For More JNAMEI Information '^5RESS ' Starting'Now Have you made your Christmas appointment yet? TODD-1 year DARREN-3 years Children of MR. AND MRS. D. HUBKA CARMANGAY ;