Lethbridge Herald, The (Newspaper) - October 2, 1971, Lethbridge, Alberta
October 2, 1971 THE LETHBRIDGE HERALD 21 Ann Landers DEAR ANN LANDERS: I have a message for that 11- year-old boy whose father drinks. He was ashamed to sign Ills name. Please help me get to him, Ann. DEAR BOY: You arc 11 and I am 60, but I once stood where you are standing now. I want to reach out to you and say I understand every word you wrote. I know exactly how you feel the shame, the despair and the bitterness. Stop being ashamed. Stop hating. Your father is as crip- pled as if his legs were paralyzed. Your shame and hate will not touch him, but they will sap your strength and rob you of your energy. Instead of harboring negative, destructive thought, replace them with positive, constructive ideas. Every day do one good thing for your mother, out of love any- thing at all even if it's a small gesture or a kind word. And when the going gets rough say to yourself, "God will help me." He WILL help. You are His son, too. Keep pitch- ing. You can make it. I did. I want you to. So (to others. Good luck and God bless. A Friend In California DEAR FRIEND: I can add nothing to your wonderful letter and I thank you for writing it. You have a vital mes- sage for every child who lives witli alcoholism. DEAR ANN LANDERS: A personal family problem: Can you shed a little light on an already overheated argument? My young cousin was expecting her first baby in a few mentis. The family got together and furnished her nursery, complete with organdy curtains. A great deal of thought and imagination went into that project, aside from the money. A few days ago Lila gave birth to a premature baby. He lived only a few hours. Lila is heartsick and, in icy opinion, not thinking clearly. She instructed me to phone her sister-in-law and ask her to send her husband with the semi and take everything out of the nursery. Tlie relatives are very upset. They say they did not buy this furniture for Lila's sister-in-law. I believe they have a point. What's the best solution to this knotty In Erie DEAR HEDDA: I agree with you that UK young woman is not thinking clearly. In my opinion the best solution would be to put the furniture in storage. She is young, I gather from your letter, and hopefully she will yet have a baby of her own. DEAR ANN LANDERS: I am ten years old and am try. ing to learn the facts of We as I go along. My mother still thinks I believe she bought me iJi the hospital. She refuses to answer questions. Please tell me if they kiss different in France. Is this what is meant by French kissing? Thank you Self-Learner. DEAR LEARNER: So far as I know, kissing in France is the same as everywhere else. French kissing is soul kissing or kissing between people who have romantic feelings for each other not relatives. DEAR ANN LANDERS: When our son was nine years old he exhibited unusual musical talents so we bought him a beautiful piano. Our three older children were working at the time so naturally their board money went toward the pay- ments. The piano-playing boy is grown now and although he did not make music his career he still plays the piano and enjoys it. He will be married soon and the question has arisen as to what to do with the piano. He has not asked for it but we think we should offer it to him. The older children feel we should either keep it or sell it and share the proceeds with them. (They do not need the money.) The question is, does the boy who used the piano so well have a right to it? We want to be fair? Toronto DEAR T.: Leave the piano where it is. It's part of your home and should remain so. When your son comes by to see you he can play your favorite numbers and bring back some delightful memories of his youth. Wedding Reports Marriage and Engagement Announcements In The LetHMdge Herald AM wedding reports, marriage and engagement announcements will now be published on i spe- cial page in The Herald's Satwday edition each week. Special requests for publication on other specific days of the week will be given every consideration. Wedding Reports, with or without picture, will be accepted in the following forms: Standard Wedding Report- Using the information you provide on The Herald's standard wedding report form, (available at The REPORT ONtY................. 5.00 REPORT WITH TWO COLUMN PICTURE Extended Wedding If you wisli information published which would be additional to that provided on The Herald's stand- ard report form, this will be accepted, and the entire report will then be charged at 20c per count line. Charge for a two column picture with this write-up would be DEADUNE FOR SATURDAY PUBLICATION WILL BE 4 P.M. WEDNESDAY OF THAT WEEK FOR ADDITIONAL INFORMATION PLEASE Phone 328-4411 Family Editor Tlic Letlibridge Herald A Calendar of Local Happenings MR. AND MRS. RAYNHAM DAtE HARDING Harding- Thackray St. Augustine's Anglican] Church was the scene of the double ring ceremony re- cently, when Rev. R. L. Cris- field and Major J. Harding joined in marriage Donna Marie Thackray, daughter of Mr. and Mrs.' John Thackray and Raynham Dale Harding, i son of Major and Mrs. Hard-! ing. The bride was attired in a j gown of lagoda crepe with band neckline and semi-empire! waist. The sleeves were of Ve- nice lace with matching trim on both gown and train. Her veil was tiered bouffant with a nylon floral headdress, and she carried a bouquet of talisman roses centred with a white orchid. Hiss Sheila Eamsay was maid of honor and the MJsses Linda Mead and Sandra Thackray were bridesmaids. They wore identically styled gowns of mauve, yellow and coral with matching picture hats, and carried closed para- sols complemented with daisies and antmomes. Best man was Mr. Charlie Rogers, and the guests were ushered by Mr. Joey Brown and Mr. Kethe Harding, broth- er of the groom. The reception was held in the Windsor Room at the Park Plaza Motor Hotel, where Mr. Roy L. Montgomery was mas- ter of ceremonies, and the toast to the bride was pro- posed by Mr, R. H. Parsons. The wedding cake was beauti- fully decorated by Mr. George Courtney, uncle of the groom, and the guest book was attend- ed by Miss Carol Lane. For the honeymoon trip to Vancouver and the west coast, the bride chose a hot pant out- fit of orange flowered Thai silk. Upon their return the couple have taken residence in Ed- monton, at No. 101 Cedarbrae Gardens. The F.O.E. bingo will he held at 8 p.m. Saturday in the Oelj- fellows Hall. Jackpct is 5145 in 5'1 numbers. Everyone wel- come. Maple Leaf Chapter No. 7, Order of Eastern will hold a GOth anniversary friend- ship tea and bazaar bc-tween 2 5 p.m. Saturday, October 9, in Southminster Church Hall on 11 St. S. Mveryone welcome. The history and current events department of the Mathesis Club will meet at p.m. Tuesday in the home of Mrs. R. S. Thompson, ras 10 St. S. Whirl A Ways v.iii meet in j St. Augustine's parish hall at 8 30 p.m. sharp Monday. All square and round dancers wel- come. Women are asked to please bring a box lunch. Couples interested in learn- ing to square daoicc are invited to dance with Soutlmiinsler learners' group at 8 p.m. Mon- day in Southminster hall, McKillop UCW will meet as follows: Dodds Unit: with Mrs. N. Kloppenborg, 1819 12 Ave. S., Monday at 8 p.m. Madill Unit: with Mrs. H. Leppard, 1523 Lakeshore Rd., Tuesday at 2 p.m. Unrau Unit: with Mrs. H. Skolrood, 1036 19 St. S., Tues- day at p.m. Goodall Unit: with Mrs. G. Bevan, 3205 Lakehill Cresc., Wednesday at a.m. Thornton Unit: in the Church Lounge, Wednesday at 2 p.m. Quick Unit: with Mrs. J. R. Reed, 2206 19 Ave. S., Thursday at 8 p.m. The units oE First United UCW will meet as follows: Margaret Atkins: Thursday 14 at 2 p.m. with Mrs. M. Nichol, 707 17 St. N. Annie I. Chappell: Tuesday 12 at 2 p.m. with Mrs. T. Osecki, 618 11 St. N. Lily Jackson: Monday 18 at 8 p.m. with Mrs. W. Robulak, 317 12 St. C N. Jubilee: Tuesday 12 at 8 p.m. with the Misses S. and A. Hunt- er, 811 12 St. C N. Clara King- Monday 4 at p.m., following visitations, with Mrs. M. Boulton, 1008 7 Ave. S. Emily Lytle: Thursday 14 at 2 p.m. with Mrs. S. Shaw, 318 12 St. N. Magowan-Harleman: Thurs- day 14 at 2 p.m. with Mrs. A. Hubbard, West Lethbridge. Whitmorc Johnston: Thurs- day 14 at p.m. witli Mrs. A LeGrandeur, C01 24 St. N. The regular meeting of Laurel Chapter, No. 43, Order of the Eastern S'Lar, will be at 8 p.m. Monday, in the Forthcoming marriage Mr. and Mrs. Lon Hovey of Magrath are pleased to an- nounce the engagement and forthcoming marriage of their youngest daughter, Maridel, to Mr. William Brett Holladay, son of Mr. and Mrs. Howard Holladay of Del Bonita. The wedding will take place November 6. OOPS1 It's not a new trend in women's wear, not a new brainstorm of the fashion designer's world. Al- though the Fall look, the fashion world says, is toward the longer, it hasn't gone this far. It's just a case of n Reading, Pa., dress shop mannequin becoming unpinned in tho window. Mr. and Mrs. Donald L. SkeiUi of New Dayton are pleased to announce the forth- coming marriage of their daughter, Diane Catherine, to Mr. Terrance Leo Belanger, son of Mr. and Mrs. Earl J. Belanger of Calgary. The wedding will take place at 7 p.m. Saturday, October 23, in the First United Church, Ltlthbridge, Mr. and Mrs. Joe Pavan, Jr. of Lethbridge are pleased to an- nounce the forthcoming mar- riage of their daughter, Ann Marie, to Mr. Dale B. Dun- combe, son of Mr. and Mrs. Walter C. Duncombe of Ray- mond. The wedding will take place on October 16 at 3 p.m. in St. Basil's Church. Mr. and Mrs. Lamar Court formerly of Lethbridge wish to announce the engagement and forthcoming marriage of their youngest son Dale, to Miss Reta Davis, only daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Lloyd Davis all of Westlock, Alberta. The wedding will take place Saturday, November 13 in Westlock. Mr. and Mrs. D. E. Lyster of Three Hills are pleased to announce the forthcoming mar- riage of their third daughter, Shannon Margaret, to Mr. George Bain Lomas, son of Mr. and Mrs. G. W. (Web) Lomas of Calgary, formerly of Leth- bridge. The wedding will take place at 6 p.m. October 15 in Three Hills United Church. Mr. and Mrs. Jack Haworth of Lethbridge wish to an- nounce the engagement of their eldest daughter, Lynne, to Mr. Donald William, son of Mr. and Mrs. William Chandler of Lethbridge. Wedding plans will be an- nounced at a later date. W Mr. and Mrs. Frank C. SVlk are pleased to announce I lie forthcoming marriage of their only daughter, Vikki Lynn, to Mr. Phillip G. Lybbert.' son of Mr. nnd Mrs. Lyle R. Lybbert, all of Raymond. The wedding will take place at 3 p.m. October IS at the LDS Stake House, Raymond. Mr. and Mrs. Toth wish ID announce tho engage- ment and forthcoming mar- riage of their only chuiRhler. Janice Irene, to Mr. David Keith Elliott, only son of Mr. and Mrs. John Elliott of Cnl- gary. Tho wedding will lake place at 4 p.m. November 13 in South- minister United Church. Masonic Hall. Visiting mem- bers are cordially invited to at- tend. white elephant, sewing and Christian Church, 6 Ave. and bake tables also available. Tea 1 It! St. S. All foster parents Ln- cup reading by Mrs. Annie vited to attei.d. Meyer. Everyone welcome. First United Church will servo a Thanksgiving smorgas- bord from fi to p.m. Wed- nesday. Tickets are limited, so please reserve. Phone Mrs. It. K. Eskdale. 327-6210, or Mrs. T. Chumik, 327-C094. Laurel Chapter No. 43, OES, will hold its 50th anniversary tea from 2-5 p.m. Saturday, Oc- t o b e r 1G, in SDUthminstcr Church Hall. There will be a pantry sale and door prizes, Everyone is inviled to attend. Lpthbridge Milk Hivcr beginners' square grc-jp will dance at 8 lay in the E n r 1 e lege Faculty Wives mil mcyt j Inlerested cou. Monday at 8 p.m. in the Bow- j man Arts Centre. A demonstra- tion of pottery making will be given by Elaine Ogdcn Unit of SouthrrJnsler UCW will attend the lecture bv Mrs. Lola Lange on the royal commission on the status of women. Members are asked to j meet at p.m. Tuesday in St. Patrick's CWL will spon- j Uie faculty lounge on the sec- sor a Thanksgiving mass at p.m. Wednesday in the rectory meeting room. The regular meeting will follow. Women are reminded to bring an item for the bazaar. Mrs. Lola commissioner Lange, former on the Royal ond floor of tho Science Huild- ing on the east campus of tile University of Lethbridge. welcome. Women are ed to bring a box lunch. The regular mor.thly meeting of St. Andrew's Women's Fed- eration will be held at p.m. Tucvxlivy Uie church lounge. All women arc invited. The Women's Auxiliary of the Auxiliary hos- pital will hold a bake sale from 2 p.m. in the hospital lottnge, 9 Ave. and 17 St. S. Commission on the Status of Women in Canada will speak on the report to the Women's Association of the University of Lethbridge at 8 p.m. Tues- day, in Uie faculty lounge, sec- ond floor, Science Building, East Campus, Friends and relatives are in- vited to attend an open house honoring Irene S. Redd on her 80th birthday, from 3-8 p.m. Sunday, October 10, at the home of her daughter, Barbara McPhee, 71 North 200 West, Raymond. Special visitors will be the V. B. Millers of Vancou- ver. The Minus One Club will hold iti' regular monthly meet- ing in the Golden Mile room at Southminster Church at 8 p.m. Monday. The chapter meeting of the Women of the Moose will be held at 8 p.m. Tuesday at the Moose Home, 1234 3 Ave. N. Hostesses will be Alice Wilson and Mamie Hopwood. Ladies of the Orange Lodge will meet at p.m. Tues- day in the Canadian Western Natural Gas Co. auditorium, with Mrs. M. Oakes and Mrs. J. Morgan, hostesses. The Lethbridge Women's In- stitute will hold its sewing tea at p.m. Wednesday in the home of Mrs. E. Hunt, 1415 4 Ave. S. Tea hostesses: Mrs. S. Prysiazny and Mrs. E. Hunt. L. C. Halmrast, president of the Pensioners Senior Citi- zens Auxiliary (original so- will officially open the fall tea and bazaar to be held from 2-5 p.m. Saturday in gym one at the Civic Sports Centre. Receiving at the door will be vice-president Mary L. Rob- erts. Esther Warren and Clar- ice Halmrast. Cake and ham- per tickets will be on sale and Election of officers will take place at the regular monthly meeting of the Lethbridge Social Credit Women's Auxil- iary at 2 p.m. Wednesday in room one, Civic Sports Centre. A good attendance is request- ed. Hostesses will be Mrs. I. Pallin, Mrs. J. Brown and Mrs. T. Findiay. The October meeting of the Potters' Guild will be held at 30 p.m. Tuesday in the Pot- ter Room, Bowman Arts Cen- tre. The Foster Parents Associa- DIUSTIC ACTION SAO PAULO (AP) A 21- year-old mother told Brazilian officials her enraged husband cut off her ears in a fit of jeal- I tion will hold a meeting at fl ousy, took them with him and p.m. Wednesday at Immanuel I ran awray. THE BETTER HALF By Bob Barnes "How long will it take to find the loose wire, take'out three defective tubes and sell me back the three tubes you found bad last j Your Guide for Gift-Giving I Gift Registry When a bride visits our Gift Registry, it's the beginning of many happy experiences. As she selects the patterns and col- ors for her household trousseau, she graciously provides a guide for gift giving which will serve for years to come. Family and friends may consult these rec- ords as they shop for wedding ?ifts and later at anniver- sary and holiday times. Our Bride List HELEN WOLOSIUK LILLIAN SAKAMOTO SANDRA KIRKHAM SUSAN MEREDITH PATSY LEE BURKE VALERIE VOTH JOAN JAMES BARBARA DE BOER SUSAN BRODER ANN MARIE PAVAN FAYE TETZLOFF TERRI SLOBODA MARIDEL HOVEY BRENDA HOVEY DEBBIE BODIE BEVERLEY RHODES ElVERA JANZ JANICE TOTH Phone 327-5767 606-608 3rd Avem'o S.