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Lethbridge Herald, The (Newspaper) - November 22, 1972, Lethbridge, Alberta M, THI UTrfflRiDOI HWALB Ann Landers DEAR ANN LANDERS: You goofed It, Babe. I refer to (be rawer you gave to (he wife wbo was feeling guilty be- cause she "stole" money from her drunken-bum husbands wallet while he slept it off. I've been down that road and it's a heller. I grew up honest, but my husband drank like a fish and I had to do what I could to feed our children and keep a roof over our heads. The only way I could manage was to take a few tens out of his billfold while he was asleep. Funny thing, he never missed it, I got to feeling guilty one day, like the woman who wrote to you, and do you know what my clergyman told me? He said, "Marriage is a partnership. Whatever your Hus- band makes is half yours so long as you are doing your share as a wife and mother." He advised me to stop feeling guilty and believe me, Uiat one visit changed my outlook. I hope you will print my letter because I'm sure thousands, maybe millions of women are doing the same thing and feel- ing rotten about it- like I was, before a man of God wised me up. Clear Conscience in Carolina DEAR CLEAR: Here's your letter and it was one of dozens tot made Hie same point. Thanks to all who wrote. I see no reason why a wife who must filch from her hus- band's wallet can't tell the rum-bucket and keep on doing it. DEAR ANN LANDERS: I'm writing for the benefit of the woman whose husband is having an affair with his sec- retary. When she said, "I thought I'd be the last wife in the world to have such a I heard myself talking She s where I was four years ago. Here's what I did about it-and it saved my sanity. Maybe it will save hers. Sit down with a piece of paper and a pencil. Make four headings at the top of the page. Label the first column "Personal Strengths." In it list all the things you have going for you: Education, Looks, Money, Skills, Connections, eta. Head the next column, "This Helped Me Before. List all the things that helped lift your spirits when you were troubled: Music Sewing, Volunteer Work, Church, Painting, Physical Exercise, Change of Scenery. Head the third column "People I Can Count On." List your most reliable friends, a favorite relative, a neighbor, a doctor, a clergyman. Label the fourth column "New Opportunities." List the ways you can get back into the mainstream. Pretend you are a widow. (Emotionally you really are.) Is it a new job you need? A new city? Volun- teer work? Back to school? My salvation was going back to the university. I always wauled to get my degree. I not only achieved my goal but I found new values. Now I go looking for the person who is sitting alone. I sit down and start talking-or listening. The world is filled with troubled people who need friendship. I learned this when I was in need of help. The best part of my story is that I kept my husband. Sud- denly he was no longer the centre of my existence. He began to respect me when I stopped begging for his love, checking on his whereabouts and making him feel like heel. Today he sees me as a new person. And I guess I am. Just sign me- Heborn In New York DEAR NEW YORK: Bravo! You went to work and did something about yourself instead of demanding changes in others So few people think of this approach because its the most difficult one. My heartiest congratulations! DEAR ANN LANDERS: Recently I married for the sec- ond time. Together this wonderful guy and I have boys aged 13, 14 15, 16 and 20. Our daughter is 11. One of the young teachers at school has been taking Bill, my 13-year-old stepson, to a gun club where they spend sev- eral hours a week. This teacher has been allowing the boy to keep his (the teacher's) gun at our house. The biggest thing in Bill's life right now is being able to hang that gun on the wall of his bedroom. Ann, there are boys in and out of this house constantly. Bill's 15-year-old brother is seeing a psychiatrist. In the past month he has set off dynamite in the back yard and rigged up a easoline bomb which, thank God, did not go off. Bill and his 15-yearHDld brother fight a great deal. They both have quick tempers. My husband Is afraid not to let his son have his way be- cause he threatens to go live with his mother whenever there's a disagreement. I am uneasy about the gun and don't know what to do. How far should I go? Worry Wart In Virginia DEAR W.W.: You need a third party to mediate this hassle. I recommend the clergyman who married you. I do not approve of children having guns as toys, much less the real thing. Guns are for killing and toy guns are for make- believe killing. The steady diet of violence has had a marked influence on young people according to many experts. With approximately 20 million hand guns loose in our country, we should be trying to figure out a way to get guns out of the hands of people who have no business having them. Most people who kill were law abiding citizens until they shot somebody. THE BETTER HALF By Barnes "The style is nice and the price isn't bod, but I think I'd like a blue-eyed blonde for a change." LADIES' AUXILIARY ROYAL CANADIAN LEGION FALL TEA Memorial Hall 1ft St. and 9th Ave. November 25, 1972 p.m. Bake Table Sewing Table Admllflon 506 RAFFLE Lovely doll with complete outfit, perfect for Chrlitmoi giving. DELUXE FRUIT CAKE Fruit 85 MIXED PEEL 16-oz. 63 CHRISTMAS CAKE MIX CENTRE DICED CITRON 4-oi. Onions, Olives, Gherkins Cherries Coffee 1.99 Orange Sections 3 for 79c Nut and Fruit Rolls 7Q. Crosse and Blaekwell.........tins 0 for I Tt Mincemeat 1.00 Sweet Potatoes Ayimer.. 49c Steak and Kidney Pies 69c White Heather 70 Chocolate auortminri......... 2-lfa. bag Dia Eillar 0 1 flft r IB rlller blueberry, raiiln L for I .UU SyrUp lily White Mb. jar 55C Beans with Pork 7 nn Campbell'! 8-oz. tim I for I .UU rluuxtlnta InOCOIQTG DQlS M and M't aMortmentf 7S Paper Towels Royai. Pak 69c Pepperidge Farm fmtn ,oyer cakes, chocolate or vanilla............... MEATS PHONE 327-5295 35 GLAZED CHERRIES RED OR GREEN 8-oz. 59" Village This is the last of the Alberta Fresh Spring Lamb Legs of lamb lb I'19 RIB and LOIN 29 LAMB CHOPS lb. G LACED PINEAPPLE RINGS 8-oz. 65 SEEDED MUSKATS SHOULDER LAMB ROAST SHOULDER LAMB CHOPS ,89' LAMB STEW ,39' PRIME RIB or CROSS RIB GROUND BEEF VIENNA STYLE SAUSAGE .09 ROAST of BEEF...............Ib. FRESHLY GROUND Ib. OUR OWN MAKE Mb. pkg. PRODUCE PHONE 328-1751 I 1 69' 89' RED EMPEROR SUNMAID 16-oz. 75' SULTANA RAISINS MARTINS 2-lb. pkg. 75' CANDIED GINGER 4-oz. pkg. 45e GRAPEFRUIT FLORIDA RUBY RED.......48's GRAPES CELERY PARSNIPS ORANGES 8 i 1 FRESH CRISP STALKS ALBERTA 29 JAPANESE MANDARIN BAKERY Phone 327-7424 RAISIN SCONES 49' DOZ. ORANGE LOAF 49' EACH DINNER BUNS 39' DOZ. PHARMACY PHONE 327-4147 Right next door to Value Village Food Store STERISOL MOUTHWASH 14 oz. Reg. 1.49 SPECIAL SCOPE MOUTHWASH 12 or. Reg. 1.29 SPECIAL VASELINE INTENSIVE CARE LOTION 14 01. Reg. 1.89 SPECIAL PROTEIN 21 SHAMPOO 14 01. Reg. 2.99 SPECIAL 1 SECRET SPRAY DEODORANT 5 01. Keg. SPECIAL 99' SECRET SPRAY ANTI- PERSPIRANT 9 ot. Reg. 1.79 SPECIAL 1-39 Brazils Whole or Sliced 8 01. 69' (SLICED 4 01. 43c) Filberts Whole 4 01. 49' (SLICED 4 oz. 57e) Peanuts Whole 4 oz. 29' (GROUND 330 Walnuts Pieces 16 oz. 99' (FLAKES 4 oz. 330 Almonds Sliced or Slivered 3 oz. Almonds (BLANCHED Raw Cashews 4 oz. 45' Azar Pecans 3 oz. 56 ;