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Lethbridge Herald, The (Newspaper) - March 26, 1974, Lethbridge, Alberta Ann Landers Dear Ann Landers: I agree with you that the tipping system in our country is lousy that employees should pay the people who work for them and not pass the burden on to the customer But so long as the system exists, waitresses must depend on it to get by. I am no longer a waitress, but being one for six years was a great learning experience for me. It taught me to be considerate of others. For example: I remember how four and five secretaries used to sit at a table for two hours at lunch, ask for third cups of coffee, and leave 15% each even though they were making at least a month. It never occurred to them that they were tying up a table that otherwise might be used by two or even three other groups whose tips would help a waitress pay her rent. Of course, a tip is a gift but so is thoughtfulness and consideration. Thanks for letting me sound off. No Name Dear N.: I'm sure you spoke for thousands of waiters and waitresses from coast to coast, and on behalf of them all, I thank you. Dear Ann Landers: I am 43, divorced, and living with my widowed mother who is in her 70s. While I was married, Mother lived alone in an apartment near us. I saw her several times a week, took her grocery shopping, to the "octor, etc. When I was divorced she suggested that we buy a house together. She made the down payment and I have been taking care of the mortgage and upkeep I have since met a woman I want to marry. Mother is against the marriage on religious grounds. The questions I need answered are these: Do I have a moral obligation to continue to live with my mother since we bought the house together? It would be impossible to move my new wife in with us because they are not compatible. Also, I will have PUBLIC BINGO 16 GAMES BLACKOUT (Plqwd UntH Won) LETHBRIDGE ELKS LODGE ROOM EVERY p.a custody of my children soon and my mother doesn't get along with them because she despises their mother. I realize now I made a mistake buying this house with Mother. She can't keep it up without my help. What's more, she is doing her best to make me feel guilty about suggesting that she live alone again. Any answers? Too Many Commitments. Dear T.M.C.: The house must be sold so your mother can get her down payment back and you can have a life with your children and the woman of your choice. Of course, you'll have to help set Mother up in a new apartment and continue to take her marketing, to the doctor, etc. You owe her this, but you don't owe her your life. Dear Ann Landers: My brother's daughter was married recently He and his wife gave a large buffet reception honoring the bride and groom. My husband and I and our three children chose to stay home We did not attend either the wedding or the buffet. Now the whole family is mad at us My mother says we should have notified them that we wouldjiot attend I say since it was a buffet and not a sit- down dinner, it wasn't necessary. Mother says a wedding gift was in order, but I've been told that if you don't attend the wedding you don't owe a present (I did give my niece a shower gift.) The whole family says we are wrong. I say an invitation does NOT obligate the recipient. Please reply m the paper so the relatives can see it No Social Blunderer Dear Blunderer: Here's my reply, but when you see it you'll wish you hadn't written to me An invitation does NOT obligate the recipient to attend OR buy a gift, but it certainly carries the obligation of a response, whether it's a sit-down dinner or a picnic in a park. The fact that you and your family would choose to stay at home rather than attend the wedding of your niece sends out some extremely negative vibes. I sense enormous hostility between your family and the family of the bride An apology would only be a beginning at patching this up. You've given them a real clop in the chops and mere words don't change things. Tuesday, March 29, W4-THE LETHMIDQE HERALD-17 Infant death syndrome still mysterious disease Professors serve in conferences Two University of Lethbndge music professors will serve as resource personnel at two music conferences to be held later this spring. Kenneth Hicken will be one of the guest speakers at the first International Schoeaberg Conference in Vienna, Austria, June 4 to 9. Dr. Hicken will present his recently-developed theory on "fused bitonality" in composer Arnold Schoenberg's work. Lucien Needham will conduct master classes in singing and voice at workshop sessions for voice students and teachers at the Alberta Music College in Edmonton April 4 and 5. Mr Needham will outline vocal teaching methods and discuss performances of participating students and teachers. April Fools9 recital Postman leaving Letter carrier John Williams, who is being assigned a mostly-new route under the post office's automatic coding system, talks with some of the youngsters at a Winnipeg school who wrote a protest letter, asking to keep their friend on his pre- sent route. CAMBRIDGE, ONT (CP) Wendy Bolduc was soothing her newborn baby on New Year's Eve when suddenly the infant went limp in her arms and stopped breathing "I patted her a bit and jostled her and she started to breathe said Mrs Bolduc, but three-month-old Christine stopped breathing several times since then and must be watched constantly Christine may be one of the few babies with sudden infant death syndrome still alive, say doctors at Toronto's Hospital for Sick Children The disease, also referred to as apnea, strikes mainly premature infants who suddenly stop breathing and die quietly, seemingly for no reason, in their sleep Dr Heather Bryan of the Hospital for Sick Children said she believes Christine is the first full-term baby in Canada to have survived an apnea attack She is also the first to be sent home from hospital with a little machine to monitor her breathing. Before obtaining the machine, Christine's parents used to sleep and watch Christine in shifts, constantly monitoring her breathing They were reliving the nightmare of another daughter, six-months-old Brenda, dying of the same disease earlier Dr Bryan and her husband Dr A. C. Bryan have researched the mysterious disease for two years but admit they are "still very ignorant about it She said some babies may have an immature breathing pattern Often premature babies don't breathe as regularly as adults do and they sometimes stop breathing for 10 to 15 seconds Many start breathing again themselves but those who don't become victims of sudden infant death syndrome Asked if there are symptoms of the disease, Dr Bryan said "If a mother notices irregular breathing patterns in her baby, particularly just after feeding, she should discuss it with her doctor." Call Judy Molnar for an EXPERT COLD WAVE LAKEVIEW BEAUTY SALON 2638 S Parkside Drive Phone 327-4843 planned LOYAL ORDER OF MOOSE -1234-3rd Av0. N. Regular Wednesday Night p.m. 25 MONEY EXTRAS THIS WEEK JACKPOT IN 51 NUMBERS Enter tor ttw Eaator Draw 5 cards Doubto-Door MM No one under 16 years allowed to play BINGO Lethbndge Fish 4 Game Assoc. UIL1UU at 8 ML JACKPOT IN 56 NUMBERS GOLD CARDS PAY DOUBLE FREE CARDS EAGLES HALL .1301 ST. N. FREE GAMES ________ No CMMran Unbar IB Yaan An April Fools Day music presentation will be held April 2 at the University of Lethbndge, featuring an assortment of original works, including the "Seventh Brandenburg Concerto" and the "Common Cold." The recital will be given by Kenneth Hicken, a U of L music professor. He will also give a lecture April 9 on the music of Arnold Schoenberg, whose work Dr. Hicken studied last year while on sabbatical leave. Both recitals are open to the public without charge at 12.15 p m, in Room E-690 at th university. WeeWhimsv LEGION BINGO EVERY WEDNESDAY It 8 M- JACKPOT BLACKOUT IN 56 NUMBERS OR LESS lat GAME SM JACKPOT Sft GAME (I) 10th Jackpot in 51 Numbers WEE MIS SERVICE NOME AFTER MMOO MEMORIAL HALL PUBLIC MCRS AND GUESTS NORMANDY LOUNGE CHILDREN UNDER IS NOT ALLOWED fee tre onamtf tor tar quote child's a parade of EASTER SHOES for rtw family FOOT NOTES by JOE Drop in and select a pair [Of shoes from our display of new spring arrivals! Joe GREEN'S SHOES A_, on wwi wear JOE CH Get up to of extras when you buy a new Winnebago motornome. You can start outfitting your new Winne- bago motortiome Jhe day you buy it. And at no extra cost to you. You get S1000 worth of extras on the purchase of any 73 molorhorne m stock. Or on any '74 moioitiome or any new V3 or 74 5th jus! perfect Like a canoe, Coleman jug. portable lawn chair, barbeque grill, port- able TV, citizens radio, and camp- ground directory Choose from a list of oplions, loo Air conditioner, generator, microwave oven roof storage compartment In all, over 300 items to Wheeler m stock. Choose from things that M motorhommg See what a grand guy your Winnebago Dealer can be. choose from. Each listed with pre-tax onces m our Spring Accessories Catalog So how "bout it Bring your family to our Grand Giveaway But don't w? t unlil Spring has come and gone, because this deal only lasts until May 18 EL DORADO SALES amVitt jnmt _ __ 1st Avt. South lACor Bank Financing Available "We Even Take Cash ;