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Lethbridge Herald, The (Newspaper) - July 16, 1974, Lethbridge, Alberta Herald Family WeeWhimsv Conciliation counselling reviews marital options TORONTO The breakdown of a marriage can be psy- chologically destructive for both husband and wife. And all too often children are the most seriously injured victims of their parents' inability to end a relationship amicably Two years a group of concerned Toronto lawyers and social workers decided to develop ways to remove some of the bitterness and panic out of divorce. The group is has no name But it might choose to call its work conciliation counselling. stressed lawyer Jim MacDonald with the co-operation of the Metropolitan Toronto Family Ser- vice helped start the project The group is trying to build a bridge between lawyers and family counsellors so husband and wife may review the op- tions you get the feeling a couple is faced with either going to bed together or getting into the boxing said Mr MacDonald the choices aren't necessarily marriage or no marriage There are areas such as temporary while a couple work out whether they really want to split up or try to rebuild their relationship The group now consists of five Toronto lawyers specializing in family law and five counsellors who meet monthly It is headed by Marlene a Family Service Association and lawyer David Main Lawyers and social workers meet the pair individually or talk over the try to sort out which are legal and which are personal and work out questions of access and money in an atmosphere considerably different from the one which usually faces a divorce-seeker The counselling doesn't always result in a said Ms nor should it people don't understand that 'marital' counselling includes 'separation' too Even if the marriage can't be it is better if the choice is made with as little bitterness as possible Kevin will be seni the original art for his quote Send your child s quotation to paper July LETHBRIDQE HERALD--19 If your child masturbates what Club corner There will be a Christian Science testimony meeting held Wednesday at 7 30 p m in the church 1203 4th Ave S Everyone welcome Marries MD. Michael son of United States Vice-president Gerald was married on the weekend to Gayle Ann Brum- baugh in a traditional Protes- tant ceremony in this Baltimore suburb was wed at a Presbyterian Church to the 22- year-old daughter of a public school principal Ford served as his son's best man By JOANNE KOCH Newspaper Enterprise Assn. Third of Four governess came once to our clinic asking for reported one of psychiatrist Alfred Adler's associates in 1929 wanted to know why the seven-year-old boy of whom she was taking care every night had both his arms stretched out and tied to a board conversation brought out the fact that she had never before heard about onanism This forced prevention of masturbation strikes a modern parent as barbaric But we have many more sub- tle means of suggesting to our children that handling their genitals for comfort or pleasure is reprehensible Even when we have rejected certain old the ingrained no-no's from our childhood continue to influence our behavior Most of us parents were brought up to think of masturbation as an in the case of boys perhaps a necessary evil For little it was considered downright abnormal As many of us re- quire and en- couragement from marriage counsellors and a growing number of sexual dysfunction specialists to en- joy sensual pleasures Parents may also be afraid that the sooner their children learn to find pleasure in their own the sooner they will seek such pleasure with others they may be early promiscuity or homosex- uality Dr Maria Dean of the Enkson Institute for Ear- ly Childhood has found that physical pleasure is usual and even normal for young children children masturbate between the ages of 2 and states Dr Piers. children have probably ex- perienced orgasm at the age of 3 This statement may seem but Dr who has observed thousands of children in nursery orphanages and other in- explains that the buildup and release of tension has obvious physical manifestations. difference between their experience and the adult version is the difference in the kind of fantasies that go along with the she said. Young children don't have sexual love and passion in mind They simply find this another means to make themselves feel good. Harry Harlow's ex- periments with rhesus conducted in the provides a scientific basis to the view that mastur- bation is a essential prelude to the development of sexual and social health Harlow maintained two groups of monkeys a control raised by their natural and an ex- perimental group deprived of their mothers but given a monkey-shaped wire feeder and a terrycloth-covered monkey shape which the monkeys could cling to for comfort Harlow found that the monkeys with the mechanical mother failed to did not form friendships when presented at the appropriate age with a failed to copulate. the few female monkeys in the colony who did become pregnant because of the persistence of normal males turned out to be mothers They either ignored their babies or brutally abused them Harlow's experiments were later supported by psy- chiatrist Rene Spitz's obser- vations of human children in their second and third years of life Some were reared without mothers in a foundling some in the nursery of a women's peniten- tiary where their mothers visited them and others with their own families A reasonably healthy relationship resulted in genital play Babies of schizophrenic or severely depressed mothers would tend to play with and eat their rather than play with their genitals In the foundling the relation between mother and child was general development A human child who has a healthy relationship with his mother in early life who is loved and frustrated at appropriate times will be apt to engage in genital play around the first year of life and in masturbation between the ages of 3 and 7 Child psychiatrist Ner Littner offers this advice a parent sees a child mastur- and if the parent is up- has to go into a corner psychologically to reduce the upset After the parent has lowered level of intense suggest to the child that this is a private activity found it simplest to tell my children just as peo- ple would be offended if you urinated in front of so they would be offended if you played with your penis or vagina in front of them You learned how to control yourself so you could grow out of diapers and now I know you can control yourself so people can feel comfortable when you are around Danger Sears portrait photography has become an Sears Excellent quality... 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