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Lethbridge Herald, The (Newspaper) - February 10, 1972, Lethbridge, Alberta Low comes Idler: Ihursdoy, February 10, 1972 THE ICTHB'lrOE Family engineering must shape up Ily MAl.'KEKN JAMIKKON SLiiff Writer Ixrvc can only function in a family when the engineering Is in shape, says family therapist Virginia Salir. "When families understand that, they plan in their minds.'1 said Miss Satir at a family Ltaapy seminar at tile University of Ifthhridge. Kiiginceriiig covers sucli things as IryinR lo plan a meal (or a lot of people and finding ways so each gels consulted frequently, ,vlic fiaid. "Families are the most complicated things in the she said, "But. I have met thousands of parents and I've never met any rejecting parents." "It's a lack of communication. Communication is giving and receiving and making incurring between two people.'' KVEHVONE IS COMI'LKTE "Kids should taught now to a.sk for what they want instead of being fold what they need or should said .Miss Safir. But within Ihe family frame, from birth lo majority "you're loo young Irom majority to 45 "you fake on re- and from 45 lo death, "you're too old to." "ff jou don't learn lo lake your rightful place from birth to majority, bow tan you know how lo, when you reacii majority7" Elie asked. And "there is absolutely no reason why people should shrivel before they leave lire she said. Their self- worth, not Uieir body, is important. "If you see yourself going downhill, you'll go.'1 "The generation gap has nothing (o do with genelics. It's we look al people. There doesn'l have lo be a genera- tion gap." Everyone is complete for what he is, at any age, she said. "Can you feel and Ire treated and respond that a complete AM I ANY GOOD? The network of interaction among family members is lived through communication, according lo Miss Satir. When a family has raping difficulties and poor communi- cation, evoiy mi'mlxjr has problems, and the first Ihing lo iln is Ireal the raping. Self-worth is almost always in the said. "Unawarene.vs and lack of knowledge is UK.' problem It never comes from lack of love or lack of good imcnlio.-i.s.'1 STIIESS ISN'T BAD "K'ress1 by itself is mil bad. It's Itow it gets used. When .stress is used l.o define self-worth, it's she said. There are four socially-admissible rules for aa-oplum stress, she claimed, and il's nol wrong lo use one of thwn if jcu are aware you are doing it. "When you do it in compulsion, it's dangerous." said Mb-.- Salir. If is important lo "change compulsion to selection, so a person chooses" his own rule. Miss Satir listed the rules as: 1) To agree or placate. "To make you like me is. n mcs- .sagi! against myself. In society it passes for politeness And it can cause nausea, overeating and other illnesses of I he digestive Iracl. 2) To disagree. "To throw my weight around" and lensc file body. Society admires this as "standing on your own luo feel." Affecied medically are Ihc linings of the caus- ing, among other things, arthritis. 31 To be super-reasonable.1, "lo use words lhal Slave hlllc or nothing to do the human condition. Getting even by showing how smart you are." This passes for and the juices (saliva, lears, mucous, semen and so dry up. 4) To be irrelevant. To be fluttering, "in constant motion, amounting to distraction. When that happens, I'm not here and you're not here, and Ihc central nervous syslem gels dizzy from abase." All these are messages that the feeling of worth has been taken away from a person. "Healing must come in changing the she said. All present, behavior patterns have been learned. The right kind of communication can make people a-vvare they can change their altitudes by learning new rules CELEBRATES 90TH BIRTHDAY Mr. lucas Ohlheiser, a resident of Alberta for 66 years recently celebrated his 90lh birthday nt the Edilh Cavell Nursing Home. Mr. Ohlheiser has two daughter, seven grandchildren and 17 great grandchildren. Holpmn blow oul the candles are, left to righl, Jeannmr cgn 7, Rodney 099 5 and Rinotlo Bust, age 2. THE BETTER HALF By Bob Barnes ar o, local lappenuiql Variety acclaimed at LCI Career Fair GOLDEN WEDDING ANNIVERSARY Mr. and Mrs. Nicholas Zuback celebrate their 50th wedding anni- venary on Sunday with a family reception. They are life-long residents of Lelhbridge, and hove three sons, one serving with the Canadian Air Force as a Lieutenant, the other has been ordained a priest and serves a city parish, and one daughter. Mr. and Mrs. Zuback also have 12 grandchildren. The reception will be held in St. Peter and St. Paul's parish hall. Bland Pholo OF THESE IS YOU? You have jusl about everything you bul something is missing your marriage is "all righl" bul it I you can to your ch lacks something you'v ren but you can') reach them WE CAN HELP YOU WITH SUCH CONCERNS; THE ALBERTA COMMUNITY FOR PERSONAL GROWTH GROUPS for PERSONAL MARRIAGE FAMILY ENRICHMENT led by ALAN PARRV, REGISTERED PSYCHOLOGIST An Introduction lo personal growth led by Alan Parry, Tues., Feb. 15lh 8 p.m. for anyone who would like to ask qucslicm.s and loarn more obuul us. The evening is Free and no commiltmenl. Let know if you are coming. ALBERTA COMMUNITY FOR PERSONAL GROWTH 1259 5lh Avenue S. Lelhbridge 327-66B1 Bv MARLEM-: COOKSIIAW Staff Writer The Lelhbridge Career Fair covered a great variety of fields Lo arouse l.he interest of every student. Three career displays of in- terest to many were the home economics field, health careers and the Tjpl.hbridge Family Ser- vice exhibit. A film on health careers cov- ered the daily routines and typ- ical situations encountered by nurses, doctors. tech- nicians, dietitians and physio- therapists. The aspect of out- patient care was also dealt with. The variety of careers in Uiis field was stressed, with jobs varying from laundry and cleaning work to the experi- menlal aspect of advanced re- search. The family service display provided information on educa- tional reqiiirem e n I s for the work available. Trained people may serve in Ihc correctional or public assistance fields, or enter fields such as counselling, children's aid programs, ther- apy, research or teaching. interested studenis can ad- I vance further into their studies and specialize in l.he many di- versified areas available in these fields. Home economics is nol, just cooking and sewing, was a gan explained when the num- her of careers offered men- tioned. The high school course is a very broad, basic one ;iflcr which a fair amount of study, interest and work, further pre- pares students for choosing a job.___________________ Home economics makes a del- inile contribution to job oppur- Lunilics such as interior riecor- housekeeping train i n fi. seamstress, fashion designer, food service, training for insli- hiLes for children, the elderly the handicapped, reception- ist training, dry cleaning plants, i hospital work, salesmanship, commercial demonstration and child care. The home economics courses have made a transition from (he learning of technical skills to the development of a basic understanding of homemaking and its relationship to society. j Almost all of the post sec- ondary courses needed for ca- i reers in this field are available i locally. IjClhbridge Cub and Scout .itli held in tlw Scandinavian Hall annual Valentine lea ar.d bake on Sunday at p.m. Hos- sale will be held on Saturday tesses are Ann Aim. Dollv Belle from p.m. in South- Bern-. Hilda Bianchi, minster United Church hall. Asia C'jderbcrg. Debbie Chris- llth St. and 4th Ave. S. Cubs Liansen and Ingrid Ericbon. and Scouts will be sening. Tlie Loyal Order of Moose card and dart pany will be held on Saturday al R p.m. at the Moose Hall. Moose mem- Ijers onlv. The Lclbbridge Christian Wo- men's Club and Christian Hu-i- ness and Professional Women's Club will hold a Men's Nigh! on Saturday at p.m. at Svcn Ericksen's Family Kc.-- lauranl. Special fcrlure will ho presented by Ihe Alberta Motor Association on travelline. Speaker will be Mr. C. Lapjiin of Calgary. Ke.sL'rvi; ions b> ticket only, call 2127 or 328-C5B4. Everyone come. The regular rr.onflily nieclmo of Yasa Lodge A'o. will be AFFLICTED MONTREAL (CP) A crafts workshop with room to train and employ 20 English and I French young people will give j menially handicapped men and I women a chance to use their creative abilities in weaving i and embroidery and earn a 1 ing at Llie same time. "Because they are naive and so free, they arc at times belter than other c r a f t s m e says director Louise Annelt. CHILD HEALTH CARE Submissicns ore being sought from individuals and associations in Colgary and Southern Alberta in- Inio.slerl in ihe development of programs for children physical, mnninl and emolioncil handicaps by an ndviiory rommtiicr appointed by the Govornmnni of Albcilci. SubniisMOns may Iw prosonlcd either in writlen Foim or vnrbnlly Vrrbal submissions may be present- ed In Ihe following members of the committed Dr. I. R. Burgess, Chairman Mrs. M. Cohen Mrs. 5. Sohti To or ronqp n meeting plcicn cnll Calgary 263-0720 local 371 Snncl wiiiicn submissions to Tlip Chairnian, Advisory Commltteo, Multiple Handicapped Programs, 120 13lh Avenue S.E., Cnlgnry 21 Ml must hp prnsontnd bcforn Foh. 29, 1972 BINGO Scandinavian Hall 229 12lh St. "C" N Fit, Feb. IHh Slarla ol p.m. Daon Open p m. 5 Cords far 1.00 4th, 8th and 12lh Ga-ncs in 7 Numbers WORTH S20 S150 in 57 Numbers Sorry No One Under 16 Years ol Age Allowed "I hate fo lose your business, but all you really need is a pair of manicure scissors and a mirror. Ladies AdNiliarv lo No. 'Ma. will hold Ihc regular meeting on Thursday a; 8 p.m. lionesses as arranged. The Writers Worksliop will mcol on Saturday at 2 p.m. a'L Ihe home of Mrs Albciia Wells, 1002 12 SI. B. S. Roll call, valentine Uiemc. Every- one welcome. JACKPOT BINGO This Thursday Evening, February 10th Sponsored by Ladies' Aid of Si Peter and St Paul's Cliurch STARTS P.M. SHARP-PARISH KAU CORNER I2lh STREET B AND 7lli AVENUE NORTH Jackpot Slarls at and is Won Every Thursday 5lh-7 No. Jackpot 540 Pol 0' Gold SI 15 2Sc PER CARD OR 5 FOR SI.00 AtSO FREE CARDS, FREE GAMES AND A DOOR PRIZE Person! under 16 years noi allowed SIMPSONS-SEARS And Save Reg. The "Versatile Slender-Bender 5 9. 9 9 A. Oui Slender-Bender gives head la toe slrelch, and is a great way lo exercise back, waist, hips, and thighs. You can use it as a slant board for sil-ups, leg lifls etc; or jus I for relaxation. Strong tubular steel frame with canvas cover, Folds up for convenient storage. 89.99 Off Our Best Exercise Cvcle Reg. B. Cycling is one of HIP exercises fcr your whole bcdy. Builds sJommc, Burns up caloi'Pi. Firms thi7hs and hips. Our cycle hers limr1, spoodo- mc'ci, odomrlrr cmd icnc.ion. You v c U v p r o g i a m. A d j u s f o b I n s c t n n d handle- bars. Sieel frame. Insiruclions. Get Yourself nti fcxer-Wlirr! C. JUM ,S iinnufrv n tiny