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Lethbridge Herald, The (Newspaper) - February 9, 1974, Lethbridge, Alberta Saturday, February UETMMIDQE HERALD-19 Ann Landers Dear Ann Landers: In a recent column a reader reported on the Gay Lib parade. That was quite a letter More recently millions of Americans had a chance to view first hand the Gay protester who brushed by the security officers at NBC and brazenly tried to take over the Today Show. I'm writing about another kind of problem, however one that is shared by more wives than you realize. What is she to do when, after several years of marriage, a woman discovers she is being used as a cover-up for a bi- sexual husband who prefers men' My husband is a professional man, an accomplished liar, quite masculine even sexy- looking I've tried counselling and the final evaluation revealed that my husband has no respect for women and even less for wives. I believe homosexuals should be permitted to marry each other. It would then preclude them from ruining the lives of women they use simply as decoys Do you think we will ever live to see the day when homosexuals can legally marry each other9 The Cover Girl Dear Girl: Yes. I do. But not for the reason you mentioned Many homosexuals feel that the existing tax laws discriminate against them They believe that since they live as a "married" couple they should be permitted to file joint income tax reports Dear Ann Landers: I wish you could help me to say thank you to a teenager I met during my stay "at Holy Cross hospital All I know about her is that her first name is Debbie, and she is a Candy Striper who works Mondays and Wednesdays When I was a patient recently this darling teenager did small favors for me like brushing my hair, writing letters. feeding me, and straightening the bedclothes She often came during her lunrh hour when she was off dutv to do "extra" things I J-iALF would wait for her and I always felt better in her presence. The two things I remember most about Debbie are her smile and her warm personality. On my last day I did want to say goodbye to her but a nurse's aide informed me that Debbie had hurt her back while lifting a patient and she was in the emergency room waiting for x-rays. I left without saying thank you I hope you will print this letter, Ann So often we hear of the teenagers who are in trouble and rarely does anyone mention the good things others do Grateful Dear G.: Here's your letter of thanks to Debbie. Now, may I add mine, not only to her, but to all the Candy Stripers who do such a wonderful job. Dear Ann Landers: You have made it a point in your column to warn people about the "secret high blood pressure, but you have never said anything about low blood pressure. My mother has had it for years and it worries me terribly, although she isn't the least bit concerned. Can low blood pressure be dangerous9 What should be done about it? Mom doesn't like doctors and hasn't seen one since my little sister was born six years ago What do you say? Charleston, W. Va. Dear Chas: I say it's time for her to see a doctor, whether she likes them or not Sometimes low blood pressure is a symptom of real trouble. Your mother might have a thyroid problem, anemia or perhaps there's an infection somewhere in her body. Tell her she has been very foolish for the past six years and her luck could run out any day now What's prudish? What's O.K.? If you aren't sure, you need some help. It's available in the booklet: "Necking and Petting What Are the Man your request to Ann Landers, P.O. Box 3346, Chicago, 111. 60654, enclosing 50r in coin and a long, stamped, self-addressed envelope. By Barnes "After so much practice, you must know exactly how many milligrams your thumb weighs." Wedding Reports Marriage and Engagement Announcements in The Lethbridge Herald All wedding reports, marriage and engagement announcements will now be published on a special page in The Herald's Saturday edtion each week. Special requests tor publication on other specific days of the week will be given con- sideration Wedding Reports, with or without picture, will now be accepted in the following forms: Standard Wadding Using the information you provide on The Herald's standard weddinq report form, (available at The REPORT" ONLY REPORT WITH 2 COLUMN PICTURE Extended Wedding Report If you wist) information published which would be additional to that provided on The Herald's standard report form, this will be accepted, and the entire report will then be charged at 20t per count line. Charge for a two column picture with this write-up would be DEADLINE FOR SATURDAY PUBLICATION WILL BE 4 P.M. WEDNESDAY OF THAT WEEK FOR ADDITIONAL INFORMATION PLEASE Phone 328-4411 Family Editor Mr. and Mrs. Bruce Kenneth Robertson Robertson-Hurlburt Miss Darcee Jone Hurlburt, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Kenneth E Hurlburt of Fort Macleod, and Bruce Kenneth Robertson, son of Mr. and Engaged Mr and Mrs Angus Huchala of Lethbridge are pleased to announce the engagement of their eldest daughter Patricia Lynn to John Mongomery Dick Parks, son of Mr and Mrs William Parks of Taber Wedding announcements will be made at a later date Mrs. Raymond Robertson of Crossfield, were recently united in marriage. The double-ring ceremony took place at the home of the bride's parents with Bishop B. Wayne Matkin and Rev Kathryn Hurlburt, aunt of the bride, officiating. Bridal attendant and soloist was Brenda Milne of Fort Macleod with best'man, Don Ramsay of Crossfield. A reception was held at the house of Hurlburt in Fort Macleod. Following a honeymoon in Nevada and Southern California, the couple has taken up residence near Crossfield June wedding Mr. and Mrs. Walter Robinson of Lethbridge are pleased to announce the engagement of their daughter Suzanne Lynn to Heinz Schmidtke, son of Mr. and Mrs. Stephen Schmidtke of Yorkton, Sask. The wedding will take place June 29 at 4 p.m. in the St. Augustine's Church, Lethbridge. e tiding s a n nounced MI and Mrs Ivan Millar of I'HIihridge an- pleased to announce the marriage of ilii-H oldest dciughler Michelle KIISC ID (idvlord Pearson III. son Mr .iml Mrs (iaviord II of Kansas City. K.msas The wedding took place on ,it the bride's home Mr ,irid Mrs Peter Hoyden .ire phMsi-d to announce the marriage of their daughter Nadine Ruth to Donald ('handler son of Mr and Mrs William Chandler All live in Lelhbndge The wedding took place Ken I in Our Lady of Assumption Church in Lethbridge Calendars When marriage is over people want guidance The Whirl-A-Ways will hold a valentine square dance party at 8 p.m. Monday in the Moose Hall, 1234 3rd Ave. N. All square dancers are welcome. Women are asked to bring a box lunch The regular monthly meeting of the Canadian Pacific Railway Pensioners' Association will be held at 2 p m Tuesday in the club rooms All members are urged to attend. The Women of the Moose 328 are reminded the academy of friendship meeting will be held at 7.30 p.m. Tuesday at the home of Alice Blascoe, 2827 llth Ave. S. Southminster square dancer learners group will dance at 8 p m. Monday in Southminster Hall Women are asked to bring a box lunch. The Ladies' Auxiliary to the Royal Canadian Legion will hold its monthly meeting at 8 Monday in Memorial all. Members are reminded that 1974 dues must be paid before March 31. The monthly meeting of the Rangeland Bottle and Glass Club will be held at 7.30 p.m. Monday in the Alexander Gait Museum. A tour of the museum and a talk by the curator will be given Piano students. Pat Tompkins and Marilyn Sinclair, of the department of music, will perform first movements of two Mozart piano concerts in a recital at 12-15 p.m. Tuesday in Room E690 at the University of Lethbridge. Louise Chapman will provide the accompaniment at the second piano Ladies of the Lethbridge 32. Order of the Royal Purple will meet at 8 p.m. 'Monday in the Elks Hall. Past Honored Royal Ladies will take over the offices for the meeting. A good attendance is requested. Lunch will follow. Students of members of the Lethbridge Branch of the Alberta Registered Music Teachers Association will be featured at p.m. Tuesday in a public recital at St. Augustine's Parish Hall. The Alberta Home Economics Association will meet at p.m. Tuesday at the home of Elizabeth DeArmond, 31412th St S Bob Zimmermen, supervisor of program services in advanced education, will be guest speaker By JEAN SHARP TORONTO (CP) As the divorce rate goes up, so does the number of people who look for a trained ear to tell their marital and post-marital troubles to. Mary McRae and Betty Wright, social workers with the Family Service Bureau, said most people wait until there is a crisis or until after the divorce to look for help. Miss McRae said: "We try to get couples to come in two or three times to look at where they want to go. to pre- vent them from jumping blindly, to find out if there is anything there to work on." Mrs. Wright said: "Most really come when the mar- riage is over, when there is no marriage to save." The most recent national statistics show the divorce rate for 1969 as 123.8 per 000 population. In Sault Ste. Marie, Ont.. a city of about there were 278 di- vorces in 1973, an increase of 76 over the 1972 total Mrs Wright and Miss McRae agreed there is less stigma to divorce now than there once was But it still is a difficult experience for most people to handle emotionally. "There's an attitude about failure generally in our society that comes into mar- riage as much as into busi- ness or anything else." said Mrs Wright. "We get people who can't afford a psy- chiatrist Many of them are working-class people who ad- here to older standards. "We get people very ori- ented to family life. The breakdown really causes them a lot of pain "People need divorce coun- selling as much as marriage counselling." Miss McRae said: "We want them to look at what things they should be thinking about before they say let's break this up and get on with it "What are their basic goals7 Do they have com- plementary wants or are they really poles apart? What are their approaches to life7 Do they really want to live to- They work with the adults and involve the children only if it seems necessary. Mrs. Wright said: "In many cases they come to us at the point of separation, and they're concerned about the children. We tell them chil- dren can ride with the cur- rent Miss McRae said: "If the parents hate each other, the children may be better off to live with one parent who's content "People say, 'we don't fight in front of the children', but children can feel the tension. "We try to say, 'if you're going to live together, get along or else split up. Take some constructive action.'" Mrs. Wright added: "But you act as a listening post, a catalyst. Ask people to look at the choices We can't make the decision for them After a divorce, there usu- ally is a period of stress while the.partners learn to live alone. Mrs Wright said women most often come in because they're having trouble coping with then: new responsibility for their chil- dren Fewer men look for lelp. but when they do it usu- ally is a practical problem ?uch as visiting rights. For candids Of Your Wedding Call. A FRIEND "IT COSTS LESS" Dill 327-6333 LtoM hi the of Your nwm OMclwy LCC Chinook Winter Carnival Valentine Fashion Show Wed., February 13th pm Lethbridge Community College Gymnasium FASHIONS BY Sweet 16 and Bom! Street Fashions NO ADMISSION CH AHOE EVERYONE WELCOME NOW UNDER NEW MANAGEMENT MARQUIS BEAUTY SALON IN THE MARQUIS HOTEL OLG A WAGNER trsm CoaidaW weioomss and customers Jo vtet! net al Jhe Marquis Bewfly Saton GERDA DUPASOUIER is of oat) lo announce Ihal She Ivs acquired ownerrstttp of The Marquis Beauty Salon ana (ffem he? marry years eipertenoe 10 tiresem and Mure Keeping trend with the latest Hairstyling, Coloring, and the New Uniperrn Precision Perming System, for Perfect, Natural, eeautrfu) Hair Care and Styling, we invite you to make your appointment today PHOHi 328-8023_______________ Mr. and Mrs. Myron Peterson Peterson Bectell The Alberta Temple in Cardston was the setting recently for the marriage of Mary Ellen Bectell. daughter of Mr and Mrs A Foster Bectell of Cardston. and Myron Peterson, son of Mr and Mrs Narvin W Peterson of Hillspnng The ceremony -was performed by President Elmo Fletcher Maid of honor was Karen Chipman with bridal attendants Debbie Tulk and Eileen Peterson, sister of the groom Best man was Duane Nelson, with groomsmen Eric Peterson, brothers of the groom. Lori Ann Eaves and Jeffrey Ray Gallup completed the bridal party A reception took place in the evening at the Aetna-Fourth Ward Cultural Hall in Cardston Receiving the guests were Mr and Mrs Dean Wynder and Mr and Mrs Michael Sugden Joyce Pontarollo attended the guest book Blair Sabey. uncle of the bride, was master of ceremonies, with grandfather Lloyd Sabey giving the toast to the bride The couple has now taken up residence in Edmonton where are attending the University of Alberta IK- KEELING BRYAN WILSON Stately Classics and Radiant Casuals Traditional or Contemporary Wedding Photography has changed at A. E. Cross Studio the difference is BEAUTIFUL A. E. CROSS STUDIO 328-0111 710.3rd Aw. 8. EVERYTHING for the BRIDE and her ATTENDANTS HEADPIECES VEILS BRIDAL SALON batty shop 712-4th South ;