Lethbridge Herald, The (Newspaper) - August 18, 1973, Lethbridge, Alberta
_ iht nrHAiu nugvii i Ann Landers DEAR ANN My only daughter is getting married soon. She has asked me to be the organist. I re- fused. She doesn't understand why I can't do it. She you have to do is read the I've tried to ex- plain that the emotional con- flict would be too much for me. can you tell me what the seating arrangement should Her father and I were divorced and we have both remarried. She lives with her father and his sec- ond wife. 1 have not participated in any of the things a mother dreams of when her daughter DEAR ANN I see a lot of people are mad at you because you advocate the forgive and poli- cy for certain unfaithful hus- bands. too few peo- ple understand the true na- ture of forgiveness. It doesn't mean the offender goes free. He often suffers a great deal. No man lives who has not made a mistake. We all know the warmth that fills our hearts and the deep sense of gratitude when we have be- haved badly and are for- given. gets married. I love her dear- ly and feel like an outsider. Please advise Mother DEAR You have omitted several facts that could help me make a sound judgment. For exam- How old was the girl when the divorce took Why did her father get cus- Is your relationship with your ex-husband and his Avife If you don't want to play the organ at your daugh- ter's she shouldn't insist. As for your having been left out of the wedding I can't comment be- cause I know the an- swers to those vital questions. Forgiveness can spell the difference between a life of bitterness and hate and a life of compassion and under- standing. Being forgiven gives us the magnanimity to for- give 'hose who wrong us. Your column teaches this beautiful generosity of the spirit and for want to thank you for it Been There Myself DEAR We have all been there if we'll only admit it. Forgiveness can be the most priceless gift of all. yet it costs nothing. Thank you for writing. A. E. CROSS phOTO MR. AND MRS. ROBERT EDWARD MATISZ Matisz McKanna comma marriages Mr. and Mrs. Norman Fooks are pleased to announce the forthcoming marriage of their daughter Shannon to Mr. Robert son cf Mrs. Gor- don all of Lethbridge. The wedding will take place on August 28 at the home of the bride's parents. i Mr. and Mrs. Abram A. Mar- tens are pleased to announce the forthcoming marriage of their daughter Betty to Mr. Kazimierz son of Mr. and Mrs. Michael Sznerch. all of Lethbridge. The wedding will take place on September 8 at 3 p.m. in St. Patrick's Roman Catholic Church. Mrs. Helen Boyle is pleased to announce the forthcoming marriage of her daughter Linda to Mr. Ralph Martin Em- son of Mrs. A. all of Lethbridge. The wedding will take place on September 1 at p.m. in the Central Church of Christ. Mr. and Mrs. Henry Petersen are pleased to announce the forthcoming marriage of their daughter Peggy Marlane to Mr. Murray son of Mr. and Mrs. Thomas Brown of Vic- B.C. The wedding will take place on August 25 at 4 p.m. in the Pincher Creek United Church. friends and neigh- bors are cordially invited to at- tend an open house in the Diep- pe Memorial Hall at 8 p.m. Mr. and Mrs. Thomas Green are pleased to announce the forthcoming marriage of their youngest daughter Debo- rah to Mr. Robert James Campbell son of Mrs. Mary all of Lethbridge. The wedding will take place on September 1 at 5 p.m. in St. Andrew's Presbyter i a n Church. Mr. and Mrs. N. J. Goodfel- low are pleased to announce the forthcoming marriage of their daughter Wende Lee to Mr. Robert Michael Luco. san of Mr. and Mrs. George Luco of Lethbridge. The wedding will take place on September 22 at 5 p.m. in the Canadian Martyrs' Catho- lic Church Calgary. St. Patrick's Roman Catholic Church was the setting for the marriage of Miss Sandra Ann daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Robert and Mr. Robert Edward son of Mr. and Mrs. Andrew Matisz. All are of Lethbridge. Rev. Ken Forrester officiat- ed at the double-ring ceremony with Mrs. Hia De Boer as solo- ist and guitarist. Matron of honor WES Mrs. Mary with brides- maid 1IJ55 Lori Crcciico. Wedding Reports Marriage and Engagement Announcements In The Lethbridge HmOd All weading marriage and engapement announcements will now be published on i spe- cial page in The Herald's Saturday edition each week. Special requests for publication on other ipeeifie of the week will be V'ven every consideration- Wedding with or without will now be accepted in the following Standard Wedding Report- Using the information you provide On The Herald's standard wedding report at The REPORT ONLY 5.00 REPORT WITH TWO COLUMN PICTURE Extended Wedding If you wish information published which would be additional to thai provided on The Herald's stand- ard report this will and the entire report will then be charged at 20c per count line. Charge for a two column picture with this write-up would be DEADLINE FOR SATURDAY PUBLICATION WILL BE 4 P.M. WEDNESDAY OF THAT WEEK FOR ADDITIONAL INFORMATION PLEASE Phone 328-4411 Family Editor The Lethbridge Herald Best man was Mr. Don Mat- isz with groomsman Mr. Wes Knight of Grands Prairie. Ush- ers were Mr. Kevin brother of the bride and Mr. Doug brother of the groom. Following a reception held in the Carolina Rccm of the El Rancho Motor the cou- ple travelled to Banff and Ra- dium for a honeymoon trip. Mr. and Mrs. Matisz have taken up residence in Leth- bridge. MR. AND MRS. ROY WOOD Wood-Lynn Miss Linda Rcss Lynn young- est daughter of Mrs. Cecil Lynn of Bow was recently united in marriage with Mr. Roy only son cf Mr. and Airs. of Pic- ture Butte. The coup'e exchanged vows in the United Church of Kiti- with Rev. Hume of- ficialing. The bride wore pale yel- low floor-length dress vdth large white and carried a bou- quet of spring flowers to com- plement her ensemble. Matron of honor was Mrs. i Barbara cf who were a floor-length dress of rule green complemented by white elbow gloves and a large hat. She also carried a bouquet of spring flowers. Roger lincez. friend of the was best man. A reception was held at the Mazs and the cou- ple have taken up residence in Kitimat. Mr. and Mrs. Edward David Gulliver Mr. and Mrs. Stanley Malawski of Coaldale are pleased to announce the marriage of their daughter Dr. Anna to Mr. Edward David son of Mr. and Mrs. Dick Gulliver of Ontario. The wed- ding took place on June 16 at 3 p.m. in St. James Ont. Dr. Malawski graduated as a Doctor of Medicine from the University of Alberta. Mr. Gulliver is a graduate lawyer. The couple will reside temporarily in Kingston. for the BRIDE and her ATTENDANTS GOWNS HEADPIECES VEILS Including Accessories at the BRIDAL SALON 712 4th Ave. S. Phone 328-6111 Bldg. Next ta the tot A. E. CROSS photo Mr. and Mrs. Joe Huck Mr and. Mrs. Lloyd Renning of Carmangay are pleased to announce the marriage of their daughter Mar- ilyn to Mr. Joe son of Mrs. Kaye Huck of Calgary. The wedding took place today at 2 p.m. in the chapel of the Church of Jssus Christ of Latter-day Picture Butte. MR. AND MRS. RONALD ANDREW BURR Burr-Oslanski Miss Merna Deone Oslanski daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Wil- liam Dumanski of was recently united in marriage with Mr. Ronald Andrew son of Mr. and Mrs. Leland Burr of McNally. The garden wedding took place at the home of the groom's with Bishop Leo Davidson of Lethbridge of- ficiating. The given in mar- riage by her step wore a ifiHU-length dress of white polyester accented with a light green velvet sash and pink rosebuds. She carried a bou- quet of pink talisman and sweetheart roses. Maid of honor was Miss Les- lie Evans of Lethbridge with bridesmaid Miss Gayle Wens- mann of Milk River. Both wore floor-length dresses in mint highlighted with white braid trim and empire waist. They carried bouquets of white daisy spray miums. Mr. Clayton Graham Leth- love is... trying Tahiti's love dance during your trip. bridge was best with Mr. Cameron brother of the as groomsman. Following the a wedding dinner was held in the Carolina Room of the El Ran- cho with 2CO guests in attend- ance. An open house followed at the home of the groom's par- ents. The happy couple travelled through the western United including Salt Lake Utah and Las Nevada for a honeymoon trip. They have taken up residence on the groom's farm at Wilson Siding. WEftlNG Included With Your Wedding Invitation FuixlMl With Yaur Wiping up your cemplimtntary QUESTION AND ANSWER CIRCULAR You will find the aniweri to most com- monly diked by Box 516 Lethbridge Phone 327-3203 Cor. 7th St 5th Ave. S. Crowtnait Pau Agent VERN DECOUX BtairmorF Phone 562-5149 For candirfs Of Your Wedding call A FRIEND COSTS Dial 327-6333 Listed in the Yellow Pages Phone Directory arriacjes announce Mr. and Mrs. K. Omatami of Lethbridge wish to announce the wedding of Miss Christine Eliizabeth .Smith to their eld- est Albert Kunio. The marriage took place on June in Yukon. The couple has taken up residence in Yukon. Mr. and Mrs. Grant A. Day of Fort Macleod are pleased to announce the marriage of their daughter Debora Carol to Mr. Blair son of Mr. and Mrs. E. E. Johnson of Medi- cine Hat. The wedding took place on July 31 in Ontario. Mr. and Mrs. W. G. Herri- man of are pleased to announce the mar- riage of their daughter Susan to Mr. David Roy Ball of Lethbridge. Tha wedding took place on August 17 at 6 p.m. in St. Basil's rrt------1. ED KEELING BRYAN WILSON Bryan and Ed WILL CAPTURE AND PORTRAY YOUR VERY OWN PERSONAL LOVE STORY AS SEEN THROUGH THE BRIDES MISTY EYES CEREMONY FANTASIES HANDS AND RINGS STAINED GLASS SPOTLIGHTS CANDLELIGHT MISTIES ARE JUST A FEW New and Exciting Color Casuals A.E. CROSS STUDIO 328.0111 PHONES SAME CONVENIENT LOCATION 710 3rd Ave. S.