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High Point Enterprise (Newspaper) - August 5, 1976, High Point, North Carolina First time Mother should learn to Cope with baby High Point Enterprise thursday August 3, Hub 3b amx Arbor Mich. Apr Many first time mothers prepare themselves far better for childbirth than for the child care that comes afterwards a University of Michigan researcher says. They take classes exercise and read technical manuals to prepare for the delivery. But it seems to be assumed that when the infant arrives natural instinct will take Over. In reality the new Mother finds she needs a lot of information and especially said Joan Bowker doctoral candidate in psychology and an instructor at the us Dearbon. A at this Point she almost invariably turns to one resource a her own this pattern appeared again and again in mrs Bowker s study. A the first baby crisis and coping in the first three she interviewed 60 women two Days after their babies were born and again after the first 12 weeks at Home. Although they varied widely in age education level and life styles mrs. Bowker focused her comparisons on their adjustments to motherhood different people play different roles in this transition she found professional instructors Are consulted about giving birth the maternal grandmother is urged to come after the baby arrives and the husbands emotional support is seen As crucial throughout the period. But the responsibility for a smooth adjustment lies within the woman herself mrs. Bowker noted a the women who were really unhappy during the first three months Seldom blamed their the i m researcher said a but took it out on themselves. One of the things they mentioned most was feeling isolated a in Many cases the couple had just moved to a new House or apartment to accommodate the new baby. So they lacked neighbourhood ties. Also the birth of the first child tends to accelerate the husbands career striving so that he May work longer hours away from the most of the women in mrs. Bowkers study had worked during at least the Early months of their pregnancies. Retaining ties with former co workers and other friends helped alleviate feelings of being Cut off from the Active world. A the mothers who made a happier adjustment to infant care had foreseen that the baby would not absorb every moment of their time and planned to either return to work or to get involved in some Hobby handicraft or other Home activity Quot mrs Bowker said a they viewed the baby s arrival As an Opportunity to expand their lives rather than limit a birth control has granted women an enormous Power of decision Quot mrs. Bowker observed a this Power is limited Only by age. National research shows that most couples want two. And for health reasons it is advantageous to Complete the pregnancies before the woman is 30. A thus the women feel they must decide in their mid-20s, at a time when they Are most Likely enjoying their Freedom relative affluence and careers. A to Many women motherhood represents status and accomplishment but to others it causes a loss of identity. A first i became Tom s wife then Bobby s Mother a one woman said. What happened to Mer a mothers no longer merely aim to keep their children sate and sound they must be intellectually stimulated and psychologically stable. Even in the first three months they reflected to make the task seem less awesome. Mrs. Bowker suggests that women expose themselves to infants before their own is born a learn what a cry sounds like. And what a feeding schedule entails. Quot furthermore plan for your own time at Home As Well As the baby a Quot she advised. A prepare to keep in Contact with that part of the world you most value whether it be Job. Hobbies or just people Quot High Point s House a of fashion its is terrific bargains free parking at our rear Entrance no refunds or exchanges 114 s. Main st., High Point also at Quaker Village mall. 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