Pacific Stars And Stripes, May 20, 1997, Page 21

Publication: Pacific Stars And Stripes May 20, 1997

Pacific Stars And Stripes (Newspaper) - May 20, 1997, Tokyo, Japanmm STARS » TJIESDAY,MAY20,I99? P .srf- Dear Abby: I'm sure you opened the floodgates when you asked your readers for their definition of either a lousy or a great lover. There should be a school to teach people how to be great lovers. There are so few around. A lady is lucky in- deed to run into one and truly blessed to be married to one. Your definition that a lousy lojrer is hurried, selfish and in- considerate was right on. The list shoul$!include being insen- sitive, having poor^ hygiene, poor verbal .skills, and unwill- ing to give more than he gets. [email protected] in•'• La Mirada, .Calif. .: •'. • / '. • : ' .-.••• •••- \•/Dear .Beta..I certainly hit a nerve, because the responses are still pouring in. Read on: Dear Abby: A good lover, male OP female, is one who is teachable. Suzanne in Phoenix Dear Abby: The actor Ricardo Montalban once said: "A great lover is someone who can satis-* fy one woman her entire life- time and be satisfied with one Woman his entire lifetime. It is not someone who goes from woman to woman; any do& can do that." Patrick in Hashvilie Dear Abby: Great lovers have the same qualities both in and out of bed %-they just manifest them differemly in public. They are chronically kind, have an incredible memory for what yoiklike, touch you often, aren't in a rush, welcome new ideas, never fall asleep without say-ing, "I love you" and treat you like the most beautiful woman in the world, even if in reality you're 49 and porky. °Steve's Incredibly Lucky Wife in La jolla Dear Abby: A good lover is a person who takes into consider- ation the needs of the other per- son; He is unselfish and wants to satisfy his partner. A good lover makes every effort to find out what his partner wants and Abigail Van Buren Scott Adams I <*)AS TRYING TO DECIDE IF STUPID OR JUST V£«W JHEM I THCHJSHT, MOU'RE ABOUT TT4IS. "fOU COULD EASILY 5E BOTH. IT QMUY UQ0KS E WIZARD OF SO Brant Parker a Johnny Hart Johnny Hart then he fulfills those needs. A good lover is gentle and caring. He gives soft touches, gentle caresses and sweet kisses in all the right spots. He also K pas- sionate and honest. I was very , fortunate to fall in love with a. fabulous lover. Crazy in Lbve in . itancho Santa Nargarita C7 1 II ** Dear Abby: I never thought I'd ever have a chance at a great lover. However, at 65 I've ~ been lucky enough to meet him. He is trustworthy in all things, not just sex; he wants to please me and provide happiness in my life; he's able to control his own sexuality and bring us ulti- mately to even higher heights. By the way, my guy is in his late 70s. Sexy Lady in Arlington, Texas 1 i c~i Dear Abby: What really makes it or breaks it, in my opinion, is if after all the after- glow fades — can "you talk to each other? I am only 28 years old, but I am sophisticated enough to know that sex is only a bonus. A good friendship is a lifetime commitment. I have a man who talifes with me, We have a wonderful sex life, but it has more to do with how happy we are — not how technically^ proficient we are. Norma Jean Baron, Plainsboro, N.J.Readers may write to Abby at P.O. Box 69440, Los Angeles,Caltf. 90069. Universal Press Syndicate L r CROCK B§§9.

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Publication: Pacific Stars And Stripes

Location: Tokyo, Japan

Issue Date: May 20, 1997

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